I keep bringing it up to him and he isnt having it.
Well stop then. You clearly want different things from life. It's not wrong on either of your parts, but stop brining it up and just do it, since you evidently are going to anyway.
He essentially TD you you're not up to his genes and are Inferior. You're good enough to fuck, share bills and do his laundry, but that's where it stops.
I say stick to your guns. Your mom needs therapy and a support group – because who in their right mind happily goes back to someone that abused them for 8 years? She’s a victim and needs to get out of that cycle.
I doubt the abuser hs changed that quickly. And even if he has, you’re under no obligation to be around him. AND even IF you forgave him in your heart, that doesn’t mean you have to trust him with your son. I mean, he could hurt your son, he could make him think abuse is normal, etc.
Your mom is unfortunately not in a position to make good decisions. So as the parent of your child, it’s up to you to protect him from someone as awful as this bf.
Break up with her, sell the house, split the proceeds based on how much you both put into the purchase and be glad all you’re losing is money instead of more of your time and emotions. If you had gotten married, you would lose a hell of a lot more money then you’re losing now. Be thankful and move on.
I have never been on Tinder and get those emails every once in a while, not saying you shouldn't have questions, but you might want to look further into it before any drastic decisions unless you were just looking for a reason to end things.
Protect your brother.
I keep bringing it up to him and he isnt having it.
Well stop then. You clearly want different things from life. It's not wrong on either of your parts, but stop brining it up and just do it, since you evidently are going to anyway.
Well it’s fortunate for you that you don’t experience it the same way then.
No, you move on
He essentially TD you you're not up to his genes and are Inferior. You're good enough to fuck, share bills and do his laundry, but that's where it stops.
I say stick to your guns. Your mom needs therapy and a support group – because who in their right mind happily goes back to someone that abused them for 8 years? She’s a victim and needs to get out of that cycle.
I doubt the abuser hs changed that quickly. And even if he has, you’re under no obligation to be around him. AND even IF you forgave him in your heart, that doesn’t mean you have to trust him with your son. I mean, he could hurt your son, he could make him think abuse is normal, etc.
Your mom is unfortunately not in a position to make good decisions. So as the parent of your child, it’s up to you to protect him from someone as awful as this bf.
I am interested in him.
You’re a fool if you marry this person.
Break up with her, sell the house, split the proceeds based on how much you both put into the purchase and be glad all you’re losing is money instead of more of your time and emotions. If you had gotten married, you would lose a hell of a lot more money then you’re losing now. Be thankful and move on.
I have never been on Tinder and get those emails every once in a while, not saying you shouldn't have questions, but you might want to look further into it before any drastic decisions unless you were just looking for a reason to end things.