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Eject. Now.
INFO: how old are you now, and how old were you and Sara when you started dating/when you broke up?
Maybe she'll use all the space to start collecting other pieces of guys clothing. Pants, boxers, jackets.
Get court mandated child support and DNA test
Also, depending where u are… is his kick out even legal?
Nonetheless, take his ass to court
that’s good advice, thank you
Yes, thank you. This is good advice. Out of all the times I've tried to explain to him what he does or does not do, it always ends the same. He will try to change or he dismisses my feelings. I will put the blame on myself and my mental health. I want to feel better and I know I have the best chance to do so away from him. I also have friends and family who are supporting my decision and will be there for me.
I mean, if my partner and I both had recessive genes like blonde hair and the kid had brown hair i’d be skeptical. I’m just surprised they didn’t test for this immediately. It’s odd.
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You committed paternity fraud- it’s people like you that has made many men wary of their children’s paternity and demand dna tests unnecessarily… own up now and cop the consequences of your own actions: your husband deserves to know the truth and so does your child
I say this with complete compassion and empathy, but you two are 28 years old. It's time for you both to use your words.
Yes, you gave her a chance to order some. She didn't. Then you two looked at each other in funny ways (and then avoided looking at each other) instead of having an adult conversation. And I get it, she gives you the puppy dog eyes, if you ask out loud and tell her you want to eat your dinner, it's going to cause a conflict at that moment. But neither of you actually talked, instead you actively avoided it, but here you are the next deep even deeper in conflict.
Are you wrong for wanting to eat your whole dinner? No. Is she wrong for changing her mind? No. Would you be wrong for not wanting to give her one? No.
Next time a moment like this happens, just talk. Ask her what she wants. Tell her how you feel. If you two can talk about your feelings about dumplings, how are you going to have important conversations like “one of us got laid off and rent is due”?
You don't need to apologize for eating it. You need to apologize for seeing that she wanted something and not having a conversation about it, for not acknowledging that you knew she wanted one, even if just to acknowledge “hey, if you wanted one, you should have asked, and then we could have talked about it.”
Also, next time, order a little extra. At worst, you have some if she changes her mind, at best you have more or leftovers for tomorrow.
You decide
She just.. doesnt like it. She doesnt want to be alone when going to sleep. At first I thought it was cute, but its a bit annoying now.
“Men” don't pull away. He himself has apparently pulled away, although I'd argue this isn't a new issue given the context provided. Did you two have any sort of discussion about him taking a new job? It completely changed the dynamic of your relationship. That he chose to do it says a lot.
Now, I understand that in a silo you can't just stop someone from pursuing what makes them happy. But in context, you two have decided you're getting married. You've decided you're each other's forever, so every decision impacts both of you, which means you need to be considered. He chose to take a job to leave and subsequently travel often. You good with that?
Add in his now lack of effort, your focus should be on reconsidering the relationship, not asking if there's a justification for his behavior because it might apply to all men. It doesn't. You're asking why he's behaving this way. We don't know. You need to ask him! Giving him space isn't a solution, it's a game. Talk to him. Good luck.
Sorry I'm having trouble understanding your last sentence.
In my langage, I would say your husband uses the 'connected vessels' technique to feel better and improve his self-esteem: he puts you down to make him look good. However, there are two main issues to use this technique: 1) in a general way, it is mean to put other people down even if they are not here to see it 2) it is specifically dumb to do it with your spouse in front of other people because if such people think badly about your spouse, they will think badly about you. Here, the crew thinks surely you are controlling but also that your husband is a looser… From what you said, I am not sure you're controlling however your husband is stupid and mean to you for sure.
I don't think counselling can help you if your husband is not the one who asks for it. I don't think he is mad for making you look bad, he is just sorry you caught him… Perhaps, try to explain him that he just made the crew saw him as a victim and/or a loser now. Perhaps he will get it?
people actually… think that?
While I agree she gotta go because that accusation could ruin your life, you need to hash this out first. Even get it in writing if you can. Or recorded.
So he gaslit you because he’s lazy? Pretty sure he deflected being a crappy boyfriend…. Do not go back to that!
Attacking you or a child, but like if a big dog jumped on me and scratched me as a small person I would knee jerk kick them off.
Yup! 50/50 between the UK and NY, if I'm in the vicinity I'll show up too.
Say that’s great, there’s this really cute girl at work. If she’s still ok with it, she’s probably already cheating on you.
“Me man. You woman. Woman cook for man and be grateful for scraps from man’s table. Man king. Woman servant.“
Carry on cooking your healthy food. He’s not a child. He can either eat it and be grateful someone wants to cook for him or cook his own damn food. Stop pandering to him.
He's the problem – he is lazy and useless and doesn't respect you at all.
I'm glad to hear that. I hope you get out of this relationship. He is not going to get better.
Its not about how it is in porn tho, the man cumming is the end of the intercourse 99% of the time. I know how doesn't have to but thats like the natural way or whatever and i just feel unfeminine when i cant do that
The earlier you have this conversation, the better. I would have it in a public place with both Grandma and bio dad present. Explain how you felt when he left and how stepdad picked up the slack and made you feel whole again. You can say that while you are really happy to have biodad back in your life, you feel like stepdad has earned the privilege of walking you down the aisle. How both of them react should tell you if you really want either of them at the wedding.
We’re making the assumption that this has been discussed before. Judging by how they just communicated with each other in this scenario, I doubt it has. He could have been more forthcoming about having a rough day, she could have informed him she had a friend over and also was way out of line for saying he didn’t deserve dinner.
Alot of red flags, mostly from you, OP.
You are being abused.
Being alone sure is better than being verbally mistreated and artificially groomed into being a person you are not.
But that is acvording to his likings.
This is powerplay. Domination. Breaking your will and self-esteem.
Girl … run. This won't get any better! It will get worse.
This was God/the universe doing you a favor. Now you know and can get out.
As much as I hate the “divorce” bandwagon on Reddit, personally, this is something I’d divorce over. If for no other reason, the simple fact of my wife getting fucked on camera for literally anyone to see. This would directly damage my reputation and respect among colleagues, clients, businesses, etc… thus costing me money and absolutely crushing my self confidence and self worth. A colleague WONT say “well she was living her best life so whatever” they WILL say “damn, you’re wife took it up the ass and loved it” or something like that. Ya, that’s a HUGE no from me.
Lol always out hella distance after you do this with friends and you honestly don’t have to stay friends it’s just an option.
Thank you.
Exactly what I’m here for. I want to get over this because I don’t know how since I’m not usually this type of person. Any advice?
I did too!!! The asexual part. I never ever felt horny at the end of my relationship. It’s just because I’m a loyal person I guess lol. I wasn’t gonna cheat on him just because I didn’t want to have sex with him.
Keep on trying. The result is in the journey, not the destination. Create a routine that works but be stedfast. Go with friends, find ways to make it fun. 15 years in and out in the gym is my story. Good luck…