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I’d recommend breaking up. But if that isn’t at all what you want and you’re certain about it and also that you don’t want kids for 5 yrs, then I’ve got a pretty lousy but 99.9% effective idea. She might choose to break it off with you for insisting on this, idk. Tell her she needs to get a prescription for Depo Provera injectable birth control (every 3 weeks), and that you’ll help her do it or will watch her inject it herself each time.
If you have a kid with this man then you are subjecting that child to a lifetime of a father who literally is incapable of caring for himself. Please do not do this to a child, I believe you are selfless enough to not throw a child into this dumpster fire.
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Bruh get out of that relationship. It's gonna turn abusive.
Four years and you're not married yet? Can you see him as your husband?
Talk to him and find out if he feels the same way. It sounds like you're ready for the next step.
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Sure thing. I wasn't done using 1 out of 2 of them, and it shouldn't be a big deal either way. Thanks for the condescension though
I’d recommend breaking up. But if that isn’t at all what you want and you’re certain about it and also that you don’t want kids for 5 yrs, then I’ve got a pretty lousy but 99.9% effective idea. She might choose to break it off with you for insisting on this, idk. Tell her she needs to get a prescription for Depo Provera injectable birth control (every 3 weeks), and that you’ll help her do it or will watch her inject it herself each time.
She’s cheating on you.
thats weird, so you’re supporting her financially, and shes worried about how she’ll be financially stable in the future after you part ways?
it seems she still wants you to support her and her child financially after you guys split. just keep giving her money, i guess.
If it is bothering you, ask him about it. If you question him first, you have a much better chance of having an honest, mature relationship
If you have a kid with this man then you are subjecting that child to a lifetime of a father who literally is incapable of caring for himself. Please do not do this to a child, I believe you are selfless enough to not throw a child into this dumpster fire.
CHILDREN DO NOT SAVE RELATIONSHIPS THEY MAKE THEM HARDER.