Nah, it's not worth it, probably it would case an argument or bad feelings and you don't need that kind of drama right now. I don't think you're selfish, you're disappointed, people on the internet can be a little bit harsh, it's not taht easy to uave emphaty thought a screen. Just enjoy Christmas with your family ?
Op commented that he does want to have sex with her at some point. Definitely agree that they are completely incompatible, and he needs to stop lying to himself and forcing sexual conversations on this traumatized girl.
Stop worrying about your relationship and just be in it. If you need down time a good partner gives you that. You don't have to always interact. A good relationship has its quiet time as well
He’s still trickle truthing you.
Nah, it's not worth it, probably it would case an argument or bad feelings and you don't need that kind of drama right now. I don't think you're selfish, you're disappointed, people on the internet can be a little bit harsh, it's not taht easy to uave emphaty thought a screen. Just enjoy Christmas with your family ?
Op commented that he does want to have sex with her at some point. Definitely agree that they are completely incompatible, and he needs to stop lying to himself and forcing sexual conversations on this traumatized girl.
Stop worrying about your relationship and just be in it. If you need down time a good partner gives you that. You don't have to always interact. A good relationship has its quiet time as well
If you think it is done and have seen no evidence of it happening now do not do it or you will blow up their lives. He shouldn't hate you because:
1) You were just a kid
2) You didn't do anything wrong
3) Your mother is the one who did something wrong
She’s seeking attention outside your relationship. It’s not depression.
There must be additional problems with your relationship. It doesn’t go from amazing and making her happy, to other guys overnight.
She wants space because she wants room for that other attention. Escaping her life, rather than dealing with the issues.