he’s also mean to me he calls me names and he puts me down
This is a way more important issue than the sex (though that is also a major issue). What you're describing is emotional abuse.
There's a reason he got with a 19/20-year-old in his 30s. He was banking on your lack of experience to mold your understanding of what's normal in a relationship. Name-calling and screaming are not normal or healthy.
of course every girl I talk to says leave him but I want to fix it
Why? If everyone is telling you to leave, why are you so determined to fix it? What are you getting out of this relationship that's positive?
I think you'd be better off trying to deal with your jealousy than letting it push everyone around you away everytime you think people are having it better than you.
You tell your girlfriend that you can't be with her anymore because you met someone new. That's what happened.
he’s also mean to me he calls me names and he puts me down
This is a way more important issue than the sex (though that is also a major issue). What you're describing is emotional abuse.
There's a reason he got with a 19/20-year-old in his 30s. He was banking on your lack of experience to mold your understanding of what's normal in a relationship. Name-calling and screaming are not normal or healthy.
of course every girl I talk to says leave him but I want to fix it
Why? If everyone is telling you to leave, why are you so determined to fix it? What are you getting out of this relationship that's positive?
Omfg please be a troll. No dude can be THAT blind and dumb
You just sound incredibly insecure. You woke him up to ambush him. That is not okay.
I think you'd be better off trying to deal with your jealousy than letting it push everyone around you away everytime you think people are having it better than you.