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Date: October 23, 2022
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Fuck dude. I’m so sorry.
I was in a somewhat similar situation. I was in a long term relationship (5 years) and my bf started getting realllyyy close to a female coworker. It raised so many flags to me, but I convinced myself I was just being jealous. We had a party at our house one night and he invited her. He spent the entire night with her and not a minute with me. My friends AND his friends were commenting about it (I went through his phone and saw his friends calling him out for it the next day). Long story short, we ended up breaking up because of his “friendship” with this girl that he wasn’t willing to let go. I believe he tried to pursue a relationship with her at that point and didn’t get anywhere and came back to me. I stupidly took him back. Guess what? It happened AGAIN a few years later with someone else. I finally ended it last year (after 8 years of being together) and I can honestly tell you I have never been happier.
Please learn from my mistake. Do not let this man con you into letting him stay. He had every intention of physically cheating on you and IS emotionally cheating on you. This is not okay. You do not deserve this kind of treatment. If you stay with him, this will ALWAYS be in the back of your mind every time he works late. Every time he puts his phone down a little too quick. Every random smile he makes.
He admitted everything. There is no coming back from this. Please lawyer up.
I’m so sorry and good luck ❤️
I feel like you're rationalizing all of this, man. You want the answer to be “yeah, man…you should absolutely get back with her”. Anything to the contrary, you're going to dismiss. This is a huge blind spot for you.
Here's the deal:
Going back to failed relationships almost never results in happy, healthy, long term relationships, even under the best of circumstances. Let alone relationships with multiple breakups… Relationships that start in your teens almost never work out to be life-long, even under the best of circumstances. As you grow, most people grow apart…you change significantly every 3-5 years between 15 and 25. Relationships in which both people are not healthy almost never work out to be healthy long-term relationships. You said it yourself…you are struggling to just be a healthy person.
You're only thinking about yourself, here. Have you thought about what 's best for her? You have all the issues you had in the relationship and some new ones. You can't be a healthy partner under those circumstances. Why would you do that to someone that you care about?
I've been in therapy for a good while and progress is slow…it takes years, and I didn't go in with depression or anything like that. The overwhelming likelihood is that, if you guys get back together, you're going to end up hurting yourselves and each other.
Lmao what? She had her sister’s what now?
I should’ve googled too, it’s okay lol
But that’s my first time learning about it happening to a father. I’ll read it in a bit.
Lmao what? She had her sister’s what now?
I should’ve googled too, it’s okay lol
But that’s my first time learning about it happening to a father. I’ll read it in a bit.
Yeah I didn't want to be judgemental but that seemed weird to me, I was there the whole time for my wife and it was a difficult birth so she ended up really needing me there because she's not good with hospitals. I can't imagine a condition in which I'd just sit it out like it was some kind of optional attendance thing
Thank you, I have a therapist already so medication probably the next step
That is how I see it. She saw her gap to get out… and she is taking it.
No, he’s pretty spiritual for the most part but definitely not religious
Sometimes, experiences change people. The experience of feeling sexual attention from these women might be warping his perspective – he might just be like this until something humbles him.
Honestly? My first boyfriend and I started taking “breaks” when he realized there were other women in the world who found him attractive. Your story sounds familiar. After a lot of sad times I eventually dumped him and he freaked out when he realized that there were people out there who found me attractive, too – I wasn't just the safe person he could run back to when he was lonely or feeling rejected. There were people in the world who saw more value in me, and then I started to see that value in myself. And once I realized he really was that fragile, and that I meant so little to him, I never looked back. I would encourage you to get out there, gain a sense of confidence and never look back. You are beautiful and worthwhile and this isn't someone who wants to help you see that anymore. It'll hurt now but you'll be so much stronger and happier in the end.
Is this really the type of person you want to online with for the rest of your life?