Ground ball. Dump her and move on. You already wasted two years on this person that you should’ve dumped six months in. Keep forgiving her cheating and keep getting cheated on.
That doesn’t make him a white fucking knight in shining armor, that deserves all this praise he’s getting for some strange reason around here. What that makes her is very naive (this is her very first boyfriend), possibly gullible, possibly easy to manipulate, or low sense of self respect or esteem to put up with the likes of him. We all had a first bf/gf and none of us started out as dating experts, and many of us tolerated a whole bunch of shit we never should have in our earlier dating years, some more than others.
My first bf was when I was 15. Would I have tolerated or been naive enough to stay with a boyfriend who was known to be a serial cheater, who is flirting with his old crush and telling her he would have sex with her when she wants? And then went on to bold faced lying to me about a swimming date involving her a year later? I would like to think I wouldn’t (and I definitely wouldn’t now) but maybe not. Maybe I could have fallen for fancy lip service bullshit like OP is with this guy. Unfortunately, OP seems to insist on learning the hot way and experiencing first hand why it’s not a good idea to date serial cheaters and give them extra chances after telling old crushes they will fuck then. Hoping she comes out of this wiser.
You’ve got enough relationship advice.
Talk to us about this awakening. I want one!
Ground ball. Dump her and move on. You already wasted two years on this person that you should’ve dumped six months in. Keep forgiving her cheating and keep getting cheated on.
That doesn’t make him a white fucking knight in shining armor, that deserves all this praise he’s getting for some strange reason around here. What that makes her is very naive (this is her very first boyfriend), possibly gullible, possibly easy to manipulate, or low sense of self respect or esteem to put up with the likes of him. We all had a first bf/gf and none of us started out as dating experts, and many of us tolerated a whole bunch of shit we never should have in our earlier dating years, some more than others.
My first bf was when I was 15. Would I have tolerated or been naive enough to stay with a boyfriend who was known to be a serial cheater, who is flirting with his old crush and telling her he would have sex with her when she wants? And then went on to bold faced lying to me about a swimming date involving her a year later? I would like to think I wouldn’t (and I definitely wouldn’t now) but maybe not. Maybe I could have fallen for fancy lip service bullshit like OP is with this guy. Unfortunately, OP seems to insist on learning the hot way and experiencing first hand why it’s not a good idea to date serial cheaters and give them extra chances after telling old crushes they will fuck then. Hoping she comes out of this wiser.