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Mary Jane, 26 y.o.
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Date: October 10, 2022
Mary Jane, 26 y.o.
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God forbid people actually maintain physical standards for themselves and each other in relationships… /s Climb off your soapbox before you break it.
This is absolutely normal for those who suffered abuse or carry any sort of trauma. It might take years for her to open up, maybe she never will. If there is serious trauma or bad experiences holding her back, she might one day decide to get therapy to work through it and then be ready to talk – who knows?
It may also be something that she is simply deeply ashamed of. Society often does its best to make women feel ashamed for so many things – having too many partners/casual sex, wearing too revealing clothes, whatever. Maybe she tried drugs. Maybe she was a sugar baby or generally with someone she had an age gap with. No one knows. But all these things might be something she deeply regrets and fears she might get judged for.
A year is not long. That's still well into the honeymoon period, where you don't know your partner too well yet. And how well or not well a relationship goes isn't an indication of when someone should be ready – it's how they feel about what has been. It may very well be something in her past that she never told anyone – not her parents, not her best friend of a decade and, now, not you. Don't take this personally.
No one is saying it would be her fault. WTF is wrong with you?
So first I guess I need to say boundaries are good. Setting some up with your step son makes sense. Having him in your home, presumably where he was living while using and also while you are not there is ludicrous. Bad for all parties. It’s almost like working against him to send him back so soon after rehab and with no accountability.
However I want to take a moment and point out something here. That sentence that’s starts “the thing is” … it literally made me cringe.
I, like your step son, was raised by a child father. By my count your husband was 19 when he had this child. If I can quote a country singer I like, “you can’t expect a harvest with the field half grown.” In other words, it’s statistically very likely for children born of other children will have more issues down the line.
I get the struggle your husband has had. My wife has been a mother since she was 18. We struggle every day to make better decisions than our parents who were in similar situations, but in the long run we get how they will need a little more runway than most to take off. Since we brought them into this world it’s our job to give them that.
I’ve only known him my adult life, I turn 20 in a month.
I'll take there was no other woman involved for $100
“BF” is being very childish and insecure. His request is ridiculous
He will get worse if you came.
Tell him it’s a no. And no compromise. If he persists, then time to say good bye
Yikes!! Dump him. He sounds like an insecure controlling jerk.
I’d divorce him, he sounds like an awful partner, awful role model for your kids, and an awful person.
He’s sexually assaulted a stranger, cheated on you, and stolen/overspent money. If you stay married to him, your life will be one problem after another dealing with his “impulsive” side.
Fuck “his healing”. What about you, and your kids? You have been betrayed repeatedly by this man, and then go to bat and lie to everyone in your life to protect him.
Raise your bar. You deserve better.
Thank you. I have experienced a lot of bad relationships so I’m having trouble just throwing that word around ?