We had honest conversations about it and that's what both said.
I don't even understand your point. I'm not saying they liked it but were self conscious. They didn't like it because they were self conscious about it.
You don't think I should accept what they told me?
There's a saying once a cheater always a cheater. Now not to say that OP can't have changed but she hid it from her partner and now is being really suspicious. She's not really winning in the honesty game. Normally people ask if there's anything they should be concerned about from their past or any variation of such. A history of cheating should be mentioned before saying I do
Mate you don't trust her, don't matter if you love her, she has previously had an affair.
Did you actually have a conversation with the affair partner/ex friend and confirm what she claimed?
We had honest conversations about it and that's what both said.
I don't even understand your point. I'm not saying they liked it but were self conscious. They didn't like it because they were self conscious about it.
You don't think I should accept what they told me?
There's a saying once a cheater always a cheater. Now not to say that OP can't have changed but she hid it from her partner and now is being really suspicious. She's not really winning in the honesty game. Normally people ask if there's anything they should be concerned about from their past or any variation of such. A history of cheating should be mentioned before saying I do
You’re already lying. Good luck with the rest of the ‘relationship’.
Get over it or break up. So easy.
Tell her everything you said in this post. Call her out on this manipulative behaviour and then refuse to entertain it if she tries it again.
Divorce him and get an STD test.