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What I love about it is that by that friend's own logic, that friend is being controlling! Since apparently giving advice or expressing an opinion is controlling.
It just doesn’t make sense to me as why. In my mind if my son was doing really good and getting ripped I’d be happy for him. I’d want my son to become an in shape man
This is rape , you did not consent and tried to stop her. Leave her immediately and get try to get it documented. Either a coins oler, support group, PCP, police your pick. Stay away from that thing. It’s rape If need be try and get in contact with a sexual assault hotline if you have issues or need someone who will understand to talk to like RAINN.
Question from an European here. What do people do during the dating phase ? Do they display affection in public ? Do they have sex? It’s so mysterious for me (we don’t have that kind of culture I guess)
She just talked to me and told me she wants to ignore what feels right and wants to be with me. She asked me to run away with her in this delusion. I love her. But idk what to do
Hey! I’m 22F and have been your friend before, I honestly thought this was my best friend writing this for a second lmao. We went through something very similar
Your friend isn’t going to leave or change until she decides that it’s best for her. She doesn’t see anything wrong with this, therefore you’re being dramatic or XYZ is going wrong.
You probably know it already, but this relationship is abusive. Speaking out against it isn’t going to help and will make her push you away, as she has.
That’s not your fault, it’s a symptom of the abuse.
Protect your peace girl, you said what you had to say and gave your 2¢. You did what you could, ultimately the rest is up to her. You can’t force someone to want better for themselves.
When she snaps out of it, she will be grateful that you tried.
I would break up with a partner if they ever even suggested this.
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What I love about it is that by that friend's own logic, that friend is being controlling! Since apparently giving advice or expressing an opinion is controlling.
It just doesn’t make sense to me as why. In my mind if my son was doing really good and getting ripped I’d be happy for him. I’d want my son to become an in shape man
This is rape , you did not consent and tried to stop her. Leave her immediately and get try to get it documented. Either a coins oler, support group, PCP, police your pick. Stay away from that thing. It’s rape If need be try and get in contact with a sexual assault hotline if you have issues or need someone who will understand to talk to like RAINN.
Question from an European here. What do people do during the dating phase ? Do they display affection in public ? Do they have sex? It’s so mysterious for me (we don’t have that kind of culture I guess)
My God, do NOT have a baby with this woman!
So many men unfortunately play the long game until they think you’re trapped.
She just talked to me and told me she wants to ignore what feels right and wants to be with me. She asked me to run away with her in this delusion. I love her. But idk what to do
Hey! I’m 22F and have been your friend before, I honestly thought this was my best friend writing this for a second lmao. We went through something very similar
Your friend isn’t going to leave or change until she decides that it’s best for her. She doesn’t see anything wrong with this, therefore you’re being dramatic or XYZ is going wrong.
You probably know it already, but this relationship is abusive. Speaking out against it isn’t going to help and will make her push you away, as she has.
That’s not your fault, it’s a symptom of the abuse.
Protect your peace girl, you said what you had to say and gave your 2¢. You did what you could, ultimately the rest is up to her. You can’t force someone to want better for themselves.
When she snaps out of it, she will be grateful that you tried.
I wanted to update the post and include his reasoning. I don’t know if that changes anything or gives more context. Thank you for your response ?