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Mary, 23 y.o.
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Date: October 3, 2022
Mary, 23 y.o.
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I wanted to do a post just about the cheating not the herpes. I’ve accepted the herpes because he has since proven he didn’t know he had it (rang the doctors in front of me about past records and among other things)
I want to know if the cheating itself is something to get over or not
Your opinion is wrong.
No it isn’t. It’s an opinion. You can’t have a wrong opinion. You can disagree with his opinion, which you obviously do, but that’s still his opinion. It’s neither right nor wrong, just different to yours.
And if you believe it’s not possible to ask questions in a non accusatory way then I suggest you do a few courses on negotiation techniques to learn how it can be done.
This is sad.
Please break up with her for your own sake. She doesn't need to agree with you.
This is fucking hilarious, down voters with no sense of humour are so lame
Half of reddit is puns or dad jokes getting 3k up votes somehow but u got down voted
Man, communication this bad only ends 1 way. A break up. This guy is clearly wishy washy with his emotions and interest in the relationship.
You told him not to! Don't play these childish games where you tell him one thing and expect the opposite! That is not okay.
I would leave, calmly, safely and with someone with you for when he gets violent. It might have been a one off when he was in a “dark place”, but what if it wasnt that and he's lieing to hid the truth? What if he gets in another “dark place”? What happens if something happens in your life that's stressful? If you stay you'll be on egg shells waiting for him to lose his temper and that's no way to online
She could have been your daughter… she isn’t ‘some baby’ but there’s a huge age gap here and a huge power imbalance. This is 100% grooming. The reason she’s with you is because she didn’t know any better. Because she is still a developing human, who isn’t nearly done with that yet.
Once she realizes what you did to her, that you are a pedophile, she’ll come around.
You ‘met her when she was an adult’. Dude, 18 isn’t nearly an adult and if you see her in a sexual way that’s gross. I 100% would stop contact with you too if you were my father. Not only are you married to an almost child, who is the same age as your own daughter, youcould have been married to your daughter, you married her friend.
There’s no fixing this dude. Once you decided to be a pedophile and have sex with pretty much a child and marry an unsuspecting girl, it was done. You groomed her.
Well I mean, is it a deal breaker for you that it happened? I mean, he had stomach problems, literally shit the bed and spent half an hour in the bathroom probably scared out of his mind and embarrassed about what happened.
If you still can see yourself having a relationship or at least spending more time with him, reach out. Acknowledge the event matter of factly, and that you would like to see more of him, sans poop.
If you don't want to see him again, maybe just say that accidents happen, you hope he feels better and doesn't let this destroy his self esteem and wish him luck in the future.
Things like this happen. You can be part of the problem or part of the solution for him either way you decide to go with it moving forward. Just remember that empathy is free.
Tell him in the morning to report this new change in his sleep pattern to his doctor. Could be a sign things are getting worse or he needs different medications. Has he switched medication recently?
Sleep in a guest bedroom where you can lock the door, if you have one. Or if you only have one bedroom, he sleeps on the couch while you lock the bedroom door.
Hopefully you can resolve this and sleep in the same bed again, but he needs to see a doctor to fix it.
Move out!
Breaking up always looks hot. There’s so many logistics to figure out. Trust me, as a divorcee, that whatever logistics scare you now, there will only be more complicated logistics after being married. If you don’t want to break up yet, tell him you want to postpone the wedding. A man worth marrying will encourage you to take your time and be sure, and attend counseling with you. If he won’t go for any of that, walk away. Trust me that this is the easiest time to break up that you will ever have.