Is this what you really need right now while your mom is going through treatment? He is being abusive and not supportive during this very naked time for you and your family. Break up with him and focus on things that actually matter.
You are not a “predator”, but you're certainly not in love either. This is a crush. Pure and powerful infatuation.
There is no solution to this, his parents have made sure of that. Anything you do to further the relationship will only confirm what they believe about you. End it now, before you both get even more hurt.
If this guy really is your “true love”, he still will be in a few years. Reconnect after he stops letting his parents control his life.
Maybe. Maybe not. You have to understand how bad you fucked up and how badly it hurts him. You can’t use the booze as an excuse.
Now for the good news. You are 21. Chances are good there will be more drama with your ex in the future. You are both so young and with time he may reopen communication. Maybe.
Go on the trip, have a great time, have growth and experiences and then come back and realize even more how pathetic it is that he’s feeling some kind of way and making it an issue.
I have insomnia and scroll for hours and sometimes comment a lot but obsessing over one post and being super negative about it is gross. The only times I sit on a post is if it’s talking about something I’m passionate about or a lot of people are asking questions about things I know”
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Is this what you really need right now while your mom is going through treatment? He is being abusive and not supportive during this very naked time for you and your family. Break up with him and focus on things that actually matter.
You are not a “predator”, but you're certainly not in love either. This is a crush. Pure and powerful infatuation.
There is no solution to this, his parents have made sure of that. Anything you do to further the relationship will only confirm what they believe about you. End it now, before you both get even more hurt.
If this guy really is your “true love”, he still will be in a few years. Reconnect after he stops letting his parents control his life.
Maybe. Maybe not. You have to understand how bad you fucked up and how badly it hurts him. You can’t use the booze as an excuse.
Now for the good news. You are 21. Chances are good there will be more drama with your ex in the future. You are both so young and with time he may reopen communication. Maybe.
Will you have moved on by then? Probably.
20 and 24 is nothing. Sounds like a bit of projection there.
If you don't agree with his view points and keep fighting about it, don't date him.
Surely your mum has provided her side of the story by now. She owes it to both of you
Go on the trip, have a great time, have growth and experiences and then come back and realize even more how pathetic it is that he’s feeling some kind of way and making it an issue.
I have insomnia and scroll for hours and sometimes comment a lot but obsessing over one post and being super negative about it is gross. The only times I sit on a post is if it’s talking about something I’m passionate about or a lot of people are asking questions about things I know”
Ok. So what does that look like? What should he do?