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Megan Monet, 24 y.o.
Location: California, United States
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On-line Live Sex Chat rooms Megan Monet
Date: October 13, 2022
Megan Monet, 24 y.o.
Location: California, United States
Room subject:
To Start on-line video press there
Sounds like it was likely she got pregnant before this, unless that was a very premature baby.
That being said, if you don't want to be with her and don't want to raise the baby yourself it seems like the issue is that she gives it up for adoption. You're not even sure that it's yours and you don't seem keen on finding out.
It seems like you're looking for a reason to tie her to you–if you wanted to just have your child you would have gone to the hospital by now IMO
I think the writing is on the wall, OP. Cut your losses and move on.
Looking after an elderly loved one is really fucking very hot for everyone involved. He seemed happier towards the end during his last 4 years or so once he’d essentially lost all his memories, speech, faculties, etc. Can’t be embarrassed if you don’t know what you’re supposed to be embarrassed about…or what embarrassment is! Can’t be sad over missing memories or things you used to be able to do but can’t anymore when you can’t remember how to go the toilet on your own. That sort of thing.
Mum only placed him in assisted living when she came home from work one day to the front door unlocked and wide open and the dog running around the cul-de-sac. He’d forgotten that he didn’t live on his own in his flat anymore, managed to take a bus down to his old local and order a pint like he hadn’t been living with us for 3 years! We knew then he needed supervision and security we couldn’t provide, especially considering it was just after the big financial crash and mum absolutely could not afford to quit her job.
Did your brother and SIL not do anything to help him when he was panicking and confused? Honestly, after that behaviour, I’d refuse to speak to my brother if he pulled shit like that. My own father is a recovering alcoholic who physically, emotionally, and mentally abused me from birth through til I cut him off at 25 aside from pleasantries if I see him at family gatherings. His behaviour has changed around everyone but me, and I have cPTSD because of the abuse. I still wouldn’t pull the shit your brother pulled and my other half wouldn’t allow it either. I’d do what I had to if it came down to it – he has lesions on the brain due to decades of substance abuse and he hasn’t even hit 50 yet – but I wouldn’t go out of my way to be malicious and vindictive.
You’re absolutely not on your own in this. It’s sadly a very common experience. A lot of the current elderly generation raised kids the best they knew how to, and unfortunately it resulted in a lot of trauma for their children – and I’m sure the children of those children will have the exact same experience too. I always say you can be the best parent in the world but you’ll probably still fuck up your kids in some form or another. It’s inevitable. But when we know better, we do better, and we do our best to break the cycles of generational trauma and abuse.
Your dad really needs to fill out a will, even if it’s the bare bones of one, as well as an expression of wishes and potentially a springing POA (one that becomes active if he’s incapacitated). I know he doesn’t want to deal with it but it’s important. Things like does he want to be buried or cremated? Does he want a funeral or a celebration/piss up? Are there any charities he would like to make a donation to? Or memorials he would like? Does he want to be resuscitated/intubated or not? Does he want to donate his organs?
It might help if you fill yours out at the same time, so it’s less of a ‘thing that people do when they’re close to death’ and more of a ‘we need to make a contingency plan in the event of the worst happening’. Hell, add in some funny ones if you want like what would you want in the event you were bitten by a zombie or gained superpowers? It doesn’t have to be doom and gloom but it DOES need to be done.
>>i would know that they had one on, and that would make me feel uncomfortable.
You lost me here. Your partner has offered a great solution: That they will wear it when they are not with you. You just knowing they have one on and feeling “uncomfortable” (what does that mean, by the way?) is a sign that you really need to get therapy, because you're treading into territory of controlling another's out-of-sight action with your feelings.
This is why celebrities only ever dare each other.
All of this, but get legal advice first before anything else.
If you are not getting what you need from a relationship it is OK to end a relationship you do not have to stay in any situation that does not serve you
This isn’t a slipped/herniated disc then.
Also you need an MRI to diagnose a herniated disc. I assure you he did not have an MRI same day unless they were considering emergency surgery.