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Date: October 4, 2022
Megan, 27 y.o.
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Christ. You’re 18. Nothing about this is unique. Follow your hormones until they calm down and you can settle down. Trying to very hot too before you’re ready will drive you crazy. Learning to experience life without imaginary or real boundaries limiting you, would be silly.
This is what stood out to me.
I fully believe my wife is out of my league. She is the most amazing woman I’ve ever met and I strive to live up to her. Even though we are equal partners in everything, I see her as a goddess among humans, and I’m grateful to be in her presence.
This dude sucks.
Divorce?
I dunno, it’s nude to come back from what he said, it’s really fucked up.
Therapy? Absofukinglutely
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Your doing the work to understand enmeshed. You can't change her. When she breaks your boundary, she gets time out. No visits, calls text for a time you decide. I wouldn't take anyone to visit her, she is abusive. Block her from your social media so she won't know who your friends and acquaintances are. If your friends mention her following, advise them to block her. She will get angry or cry. Ignore, as those are minuplative tactics.
On the surface, all of this is thin grounds for what is a very serious accusation.
But here is why you aren’t in the wrong:
He lied.
How? By omission.
If things were so casual as he says, he would have said, “hey honey, X was here today and we went for a workout.” Or “hey honey, X was in our room for (insert mundane reason)”.
The fact that he didn’t disclose information to you because he understood you would, at the very least, have some follow-up questions means he is very capable of lying to you.. and that erodes trust very quickly.
Now, add in a pinch of gaslighting and the dismissal of your concerns, and you have yourself a situation.
The circumstances are explainable. His reaction is suspicious.
Now, even if he hasn’t cheated, is his behavior acceptable?
If a co-worker gave you the same flimsy excuses, you’d add them onto your shitlist so fast and NOT support them at work.
Why would you accept it from him? The person who is supposed to have your back?
Thank you. That's a good perspective
Oooo….kaaayyy.
Well, first and foremost, he needs to get a paternity test. Full stop.
I'm not going to make assumptions or offer advice or opinions.
Paternity test. NOW.