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I think you're both right. You're absolutely not in the wrong for feeling this way, but I think communication is bad, from both sides, and you need to set some boundaries, and enforce them. For example: you say he follows you to the bathroom. That's pretty intense, and i can definitely see why that would grind your gears…so, start by saying “please don't follow me into the bathroom, i need my privacy”. If he doesn't listen, get a lock installed, and wear earbuds if you have to while you're in there! He will get the hint eventually.
He says couples counselling is the nuclear option. I feel like he may be afraid that if you two go to counselling, divorce may be on the table (some people have a strong belief that therapy will automatically blame the man and break relationships as opposed to fixing them) Have a chat with him and explore why he may feel that it doesn't bode well, and offer the alternative, say something along the lines of: “I want this for both of us, we are both struggling mentally, and i feel it would be good to see someone for both our mental wellbeing and our relationship”. If you make it seem like you're concerned about both of you, as opposed to placing the blame at his feet, he might see the light and decide that it's for the best.
….following on with the above, I think you may need to be more clear about how YOUR feeling about everything that's going on with you. I am not saying you haven't tried, but maybe if you were a bit more firm with what you want and more assertive, he might just give you the space you need.
I also think you may benefit from a support network, just for you, and maybe a hobby outside the home (even if it's just a walk around the block when you feel smothered). You mention you have some trauma of your own and you're also bipolar, but you don't mention being under any kind of treatment plan. I think getting your own therapist might be very helpful for you ❤️
Remember: you aren't wrong for having needs, and you aren't selfish for wanting those needs met, and it's okay to want space even from the people you love and those that need you ?
Good luck.
We are getting there, but not much has come of it. Tbh, the therapists aren't great and I never just have 1. Since I tried to commit suicide, my medical provider has set my out of network and everything dealing with my mental health is now dealt with by the county –which is not good.
I've been trying to help myself but recent events continue to trigger these emotions and thoughts within me.
I mean, you have to stop snapping at her for not being interested in it. You say you love her and that it isn't a deal-breaker.
Get used to your palm, and if other varieties of intimacy might help you deal with the lack, maybe she would be amenable to that.
Respect her boundaries and don't act like a teen who's complaining about blue balls: it's just adding fuel to the turned off fire.
no worries! I hope it all works out for you
Lower abdominal cramps can be literally SO MANY things!
…gas, getting her period, eating new foods, being stressed out just to name a few…
Being moody can also be due to stress or related to her cycle.
Please stop googling and when you see her, just be kind and caring and ask how she’s feeling, and then leave it at that. She’s an adult. If she has concerns, she’ll likely look into them herself.
For about 3 months, but we known eachother for 6 months
Not really just that she has responsive sex drive.
Yep, imagine being a pathologist and having someone instantly accusing you of [insert crime involving deceased people], or feeling someone's clothing after being asked…”this is actually cashmere. Feel the difference” and being accused of flirting o.O