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Mel NEXT STREAM , ?03.10?, y.o.
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Online Live Sex Chat rooms Mel NEXT STREAM , ?03.10?
Date: October 14, 2022
Mel NEXT STREAM , ?03.10?, y.o.
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To Start live! video press there
By the way, I have never asked a gf to buy groceries, unless we were planning a party or entertainment or she were coming for dinner and we were missing ingredients.
Oh so you met there? You didn't move to be near him? How far Is your hometown from his,?
You might be onto something! Now that I think of it, he never mentions his father. Thanks for the insight! But secretly hoping they might be billionaires haha
I don't understand. You had plans to go out but he wasn't putting any effort into planning what to do? Were there more plans that needed to be made?
For the last 3 paragraphs, there’s nowhere OP mentions that he slapped her and feel any sorry about it. OP’s unconscious reaction is slapping her not once but twice. Even after she initiated to apologize, he had no idea what he did to her. Learn some more about CONSENT and SELF-REFLECTION.
I get that you can get to undetectable levels and that the risk of passing it through sex is then incredibly minimal.
Current scientific consensus is that it's actually zero. As in no chance of spread through sex with undetectable levels.
I’m sorry but therapy with this man is a waste of time and money. You’re hoping that hearing from somebody else that he’s treating you badly will make him suddenly do a 180 and turn into an honest, considerate, empathetic person. Therapy doesn’t work like that; it can help you talk through issues, it can give you strategies, but it can’t transform someone into the opposite of who they are now.
Your fiancé is a selfish person who lies and lacks empathy. Who puts you in danger and disregards your comfort and safety when it’s convenient for him. Do you really believe he’s going to suddenly start treating you like a human being because a therapist tells him he sucks as a partner? I’m sorry but it’s far more likely they will ask you why the hell you’re still in this relationship – which is a very good question.
So he has money…do you really want to date some middles aged dude who is “immature” just because you'd get to travel? I mean..if he seems immature to a 23 year old, in reality he is probably extremely, concerningly immature. Don't be with him for money. That's gross.
This sounds more like a chore than a romance. Please make sure you want to continue dating her not because of her needs, but because you love her and want to spend the rest of your life with her. Guilt should not be a factor. You need to do what is best for you.
Yeah she probably cheated. If not actually then she at least planned to. She has zero respect for you. She knows she is in the wrong and she tried to gaslight you into thinking you are misbehaving and while I hate that buzzword for being so overused in this situation it is actually the right word to use.
Love is not everything. If she sends nudes to other guys and all that other stuff that happened she has no respect for you anymore and the relationship is going down the drains eventually anyways. You will also never learn the whole story probably and it should not really matter. Just dump her ass and get on with your life.
Yep let the big baby cook for himself until he appreciates the effort and love you put in to make meals for him
Do we have proof that this is a loving family? Or even really a woman she was messaging on Instagram instead of idk, via text message or a lawyer?
I have experience in adoptions, as my own child is adopted to another family. None of this screams legal adoption or loving family. It all screams human trafficking. Children are a hard commodity for pedophiles.
yeah the birth fetish one got me too……
I think I need to go back to bed. Because I can't keep off reddit when I am bored lol.
Sounds shady. Why doesn’t she want you and this guy to meet? Have you brought up how disrespectful this whole thing is? What does she say?
Bro, just be you. Treat her well, make smart decisions and theyll see overtime youre alright.
He doesn’t. He talks about him hating life or that he is a failure. He had a breakdown one night and I just rubbed his head as he cried in my lap all night long. It was so sad, but now he is becoming angry and anxious.
Oh man I haven't played apex in ages.
Boyfriend doesn’t have a job and refuses to get one.
Why did she pick a deadbeat to be her baby daddy? Great judgement there. apart from the leaving you entirely out of the loop. Get out and leave them to it. He can deal with her being stressed. If he was up for impregnating her he can look after her too.
Sorry, this is a sad situation for you.
Your bf is not trans. T should be called out for projecting.
This is extremely wise advice right here.
This episode is in the past. Let it stay in the past.
Concentrate on the future and a new woman who is right for you.
You already know the answer here. He treats you like shit and disrespects you to your face. You deserve better. Dump this fucking loser!
There's a lot here, but to start, you're likely focusing on the least important issue. In saying that, you're sort of glossing over the fact that he's an alcoholic and separately that he's gotten a DWI. Are you just good with that? That he's an alcoholic and seemingly is doing nothing to address it?
The next issue is that he's insecure and always accuses you of cheating. That means he doesn't trust you. Healthy relationships can't work without trust.
Then he threatens you in public no less where he suggests he do something that isn't even remotely the same as your examples. Then he in fact reaches out to her.
So he won't talk to you about it? What you need to realize is it doesn't matter. You're beyond needing to care about that. Double standard? Absolutely is a double standard, but again, you're beyond needing to care about and focus on the double standard. He's an alcoholic. He's insecure and you can't help him get over that. He treats you like shit. You seem to think this is something you can fix, as if you're doing something wrong. You need to look at it directly on the surface; you should never put up with behavior like this. Walk away. It'll be the best decision you ever make. Good luck.
This person posted this exact story days ago on a different account
OP, you have different values, beliefs and boundaries about porn, friends, and you argue often. Lots of relationships end (or should end) because values, beliefs, and boundaries.
When you’re in a long-term relationship it’s important that these things align in order for your relationship to thrive.
You can explain your way of thinking and your partner can explain theirs but you can’t actually change anyone but yourself. You have compromised your beliefs, values, and boundaries for a while and then you hit a self described breaking point. Your (former) partner is not willing to compromise the way you are.
If you return to this relationship, this is going to be the argument you have for the rest of your life together. Is that what you want? If it’s not, now is the time to let this go. It’s OK to realize that the person you love isn’t the right person for you. Sometimes love isn’t enough. I know that’s hot here and I know you want it to work. But it doesn’t sound like it really does. It sounds like you fold on this issue and then it’s still hard to be in a relationship with this person.
There are people who don’t have problems with their with their partners watching porn or having friends that are of the opposite gender. There are people out there that you won’t argue with as much. Take some time to mourn this relationship. And when you’re ready, go on and look for someone who’s values, beliefs, and boundaries align with yours.
That's exactly it; he just sees her as something pretty to stick his dick in.
And there's no reason to wait around for him to start complaining about her looks the second she dares showing signs of aging or looking different after giving birth.
If that wasn't enough reason to leave then there's the whole having absolutely no respect for her boundaries and personal space, the massively unprofessional behaviour, and complete lack of interest in her as a person that all on their own are reason enough to run far away from this man.
He’s not stopping you from leaving. That’s totally on you. You grew up together and grew apart. Story as old as time. You aren’t actually doing him any favors by staying. You are smart and aware enough to know this. It’s already over and has been for years. Staying out of pity is insulting. He can live! without you. It’s the best thing you could do for both of you. You know this.
You should have called the police while he was on his way to your house! Seriously, get off Reddit & start making yourself safe. You shouldn't talk, text or go near him, seriously stop letting us know what's happening & take action!!
Thank you this is very beautiful. So you're saying it seems like she wants out but is afraid because I'm making it nude. How can I make it not hot for her to make a decision?
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We line up in a lot of values in life, children, traveling, settling down but she's afraid she's going to miss out by not having her own experiences since we've been together for so long. So we're trying to navigate that but I don't want to have an open relationship that sounds really painful.