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Languages: en,es
Birth Date: 1995-08-21
Body Type: bodyTypeCurvy
Ethnicity: ethnicityEbony
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Eyes color: eyeColorBrown
Subculture: subcultureRomantic
Date: October 4, 2022
100 percent you both are allowed to view sex in your own ways. If you no longer wish it or to reduce it greatly then it could be a dealbreaker for a lot of people.
You need to respect his opinion and feelings because he should be doing the same.
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Yes, full stop.
have you talked to him about how you feel after sex? its reasonable for him to not want his cat to feel lonely, and you cant expect him to read your mind. if you ever think he should just be able to see or sense that you are sad you need to shut down that kind of thinking within yourself right away. its not fair to your partner to resent him for not acting in a situation he doesnt know is happening.
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I feel bad that you can’t see your own worth. This guy is rude to you and gets mad at your for nothing. Don’t accept him back. There’s way better people who will be way better boyfriends. He won’t change. Don’t think you can be the girl to change him and make him a nicer guy. It never works trust me. He’s a dick to you. I suggest healing from him because he’s clearly made you blind if you haven’t left him after his disrespect and anger issues.
You’ll find someone way better because he isn’t good enough.
Tell her to go to a ginecologist, maybe she is having vaginism
This is why I was never internet in a relationship with anyone from another culture. I know myself well enough to know I would not be able to adapt to stuff like that. Relationships/marriage are tough enough without throwing things like this into them.
Wait, you're a little unclear on some important details. It wouldn't matter much, but you asked AITH, and motives matter more for that.
So, you said that he has physical difficulties and your size that make having sex difficult.
That looks like you're saying that, when you have tried to have sex, it either wasn't successful (meaning penetration and at least one orgasm for someone, as an arbitrary point of success), and/or had some after effect from the sex. By after effect, I mean something like extra pain, numbness, or other physical impact as well as any emotional/psychological ones if it was successful but not good.
Is his decreased attraction part of why sex isn't working, or only a hindrance to getting started?
You say you've discussed the issue, and he admitted to attraction being a factor. There's not as much info in there as would be helpful from this end in determining if you'd be an asshole to want to divorce.
Admitting tends to occur after being asked. Did he resist saying it? If so, did he ever say why he was resisting saying it? If he didn't, what was his demeanor when he said it?
Secondary to that, you mention going down on him. Are there other ways you're being physically intimate that provide you with orgasm and a sense of intimacy? If there isn't, is there a reason why other than your weight?
Now, all of that matters if you really want an AITH answer. With what you've given, it would be either neither of you are assholes, or you both are. There's no real indication that either of you is acting wrongly, it just isn't working right as things are.
Which, again, only matters for an AITH answer.
When it comes right down to it, nobody has to stay with anyone. Often, it's better to end things sooner once a fundamental problem occurs to make it a more friendly parting and reduce pain for any kids involved. Like, if instead of fucking around for a year or two, bring letting bad feelings fester and turn you both into jerks that hate each other, divorce is a much less harmful thing.
Nobody needs to be stuck with someone that doesn't find them attractive. There's a pretty damn fundamental issue. We're basically just a bunch of shaved monkeys, and if our mate doesn't actually want to mate with us, it breaks that primal need to be completed in that way. It hurts our inner ape. It's not less hurtful than cheating tbh. They both stab deep into our most primitive selves.
So, if the issue is that big, then it doesn't matter if you're the asshole or not. It's still your right to pick your mate, or leave them.