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Date: October 11, 2022
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Oh lord, that’s called “learned helplessness” and he’s half assing it so that you take over and he doesn’t have to.
Honestly, this man is useless. Forget his money, keep the house and throw away the man.
Nobody has time for that shit, he’s a grown baby and if you two decide to have kids you’ll just have an extra kid who can’t care for his own because everyone around him enables his helplessness. No amount of financial stability is going to help you when you’re drowning in chores, and resentment will only grow. This type of relationship does not stand a chance in hell.
IF you want to be a maid forever, then offer him an all or nothing deal- he can pay for EVERYTHING and you can cook and clean EVERYTHING- that’s the only way that could be even close to equal. What you’re agreeing to right now is to being taken advantage of.
But be warned- if you plan to have kids, this type of relationship is an absolute terrible example for them to learn from and will make sons useless and daughters think they are only there to care for useless partners.
You hit the nail on the head there! But in his defence, we would have sex like 7 times a day sooo I don’t expect him to necessarily drop his game for sex. The only reason I initiate is because I never finish tbh
Your vulva is perfect. What you need to change is boyfriends, because yours is broken.
What your boyfriend did was horrific. The biggest and first issue is that when you are trans, or have health issues that may impact large parts of your life (such as impotency or sterility), you have to bring it up at an appropriate time so your partner can make an informed choice. For example, someone who either wants kids or is on the fence about having kids is pretty incompatible with someone who is sterile.
The second issue is that they haven't even had the surgery yet! Your boyfriend literally drops a bomb on you just as you are about to get intimate that he is still physically a woman down there? How is it fair to expect someone to have sex with you by presenting as someone of the opposite gender, without the equipment to back it up? What if you are straight and want nothing to do with a vagina? This needed to be a conversation right around the time they felt they wanted to get serious with you so you could decide if you wanted to have sex with them immediately, wait until they have the surgery, or just move on.
Last but certainly not least, the fact that they are mad at you is absurd. He dropped massive information on you while you were vulnerable, and expected you to have sex with someone who didn't even have the genitals you were expecting. The fact that he is angry at you for withdrawing consent is disturbing. Sure he could be disappointed, but angry? That is going way too far, and shows he is not safe to be around, as he does not respect you or your needs.
Run
This relationship isn't just “boring”, it's extremely low quality and practically non-existent. What exactly are you getting out of this? The guy clearly isn't that interested in you.
Sounds like a kink.
You should get comfortable around your spouse
Garbage take
I would absolutely nope the fuck out of that relationship
Y’know, someone doesn’t have to understand why you’re feeling something to take it seriously and care that you’re upset.
Does he have low self-esteem? Maybe! Is he an a-hole? Yep! Completely. And, this is on him to fix or not as he chooses. This is not a you problem. This is not something you’re responsible for.
You cannot fix him. That’s up to him.
So, if you leave him and he thinks he really is an a-hole? Good. He’d be right. Accurate assessment. He can learn from that or not. Up to him.
Anyone who needs to make their partner prove themselves is not someone who can be in a healthy relationship. That is not healthy, that is not fair, that is manipulative.
Healthy adults deal with insecurities by communicating and respecting each other.
And…you have absolutely no guarantee that he’s going to change if you stay? How do you know he’s not going to get worse instead of better if he knows you’ll put up with him acting like this? How do you know this is his worst? Maybe it’s his best. This is the honeymoon part of your relationship. That does not bode well for where it’s going to go if you stay.
Please don’t stay.
A lot of people say that relationships take work. And that's true. But not this kind of work and not this early in the relationship. His actions were cruel and sadistic, and his response has so far been obtuse or worse.
Do you want to be with someone who is capable of treating you like this? Unless he pulls a complete 180 and he gets his friends to all apologize, I think you've just weeded out at least one candidate for marriage.
I'm sorry you had to go through that. An embarrassing situation got turned into a mortifying one by a bunch of 12-year-olds.
Something hand-made is always a welcome gift from a lover. If you're good with words, write her a poem or a few paragraphs describing how much she means to you. If you're musical, write her a song. Artistically inclined, paint or craft something that symbolizes your love for her. A great cook, prepare her an elaborate romantic meal. You get the picture.
Honestly, you've already given her the great gift of acknowledging that you've been fighting unfairly with her, and apologizing. Your resolve to pay attention, listen more, and try not to keep bulldozing her with your own POV will be far more valuable to her in the long run.
Her mom can become independent if she tried. She doesn't.
She obviously doesn’t care about what he thinks if she’s deciding to do something that stupid whiteout even asking him what he thinks ?