![](/cs/camsoda2500.jpg")
0 views
Press right there to start video or
Room for on-line sex video chat MessyNastyNaty
Model from: us
Languages: en
Birth Date: 1984-01-18
Body Type: bodyTypeThin
Ethnicity: ethnicityWhite
Hair color: hairColorBlonde
Eyes color: eyeColorBlue
Subculture:
Date: February 16, 2023
I am sure it is helpful to post this, even if just to realise that it is fairly “normal” to feel frustrated in such a situation. I have a friend that also does something similar… she chases after emotionally unavailable men over and over again expecting a different result. It is very hot to see, because I care and want what is best for her.. and because I become annoyed when I give advice and it is always ignored. My solution? I have just put a bit of distance and decided to not talk about that topic with them anymore/care as much.
I think you need to practice standing up for yourself, setting your boundaries and maintaining your boundaries. All throughout your story you mention how you pretend that you are fine when you are not, how you don‘t let people see when you‘re hurting, how you even say you are fine when you are not. You need to stand up for yourself more – if Jack is around again, make sure to tell him to leave your table at the diner or wherever. „Hi Jack, you‘ve been rude and hurtful and you aren‘t welcome at this table. I do not spend time with bullies. Kindly leave.“ If he refuses, signal your fiance to leave with you or talk over Jack as if he were not there. Also set better boundaries with your fiance.
He may not have cheated but he’s gaslighting you so nude. He didn’t tell you about this girl because shes a prostitute, and knew you’d say no.
Also literally any rational person would look at this situation and go “wtf” lol. I would run tf away if I were you.
Sounds like denial my friend. Hope he can accept who he is