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Absolutely, I am kind of like that. I am probably going to say no, but I still want to be invited! I know that is kind of flaky, so I am very open about it and honest and my friends accept me as I am because that’s what real friends do. I think OPs friend is being super shitty.
Your response should be to leave. It’s one thing if you’re teenagers and you’re not far out but allowing yourself to accept this behaviour means you’re setting yourself up for a future of lesser men and setting him up for a future of women he expects compliance from.
….bro I think you were sa’d if you were so blackout drunk that you don’t even remember her at the party?
Or…she took advantage of you passed out, said you slept together, when you didn’t break up with gf she then went with the pregnancy story, are you sure she was?
Take it from me. I was your husband. I was talking to other women all the time. I cheated on my now ex wife. She gave me chance after chance after chance. LEAVE. No more chances. Do not take him back. It took me losing the greatest thing to ever happen to me for me to finally grow up and change. I did not deserve my ex-wife and I hate myself years later for what i did to her, but nothing would have changed if she gave me another chance.
ExWives Undercover group on Facebook is filled with ladies like you and they will give you really good support and really really good advice. Especially in the chat group. I don’t know if you’re on Facebook, but it might be worth your time joining. Several of these ladies have maneuvered the legal systems and managed to get their boyfriends successfully incarcerated.
Many discovered the legal system is not in their favor. Repeatedly all these ladies have the same story, the legal system was not in their favor, and sometimes police and the law and judges barely helped them. The narcissists can sweet talk and lie and sway lawyers’ and judges’ opinions against you.
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My advice, don’t keep female friends that you have slept with. It will always cause problems in relationships.
5 years is a long con to just throw it away so blatantly because you need to wait another year or two.
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Absolutely, I am kind of like that. I am probably going to say no, but I still want to be invited! I know that is kind of flaky, so I am very open about it and honest and my friends accept me as I am because that’s what real friends do. I think OPs friend is being super shitty.
Your response should be to leave. It’s one thing if you’re teenagers and you’re not far out but allowing yourself to accept this behaviour means you’re setting yourself up for a future of lesser men and setting him up for a future of women he expects compliance from.
….bro I think you were sa’d if you were so blackout drunk that you don’t even remember her at the party?
Or…she took advantage of you passed out, said you slept together, when you didn’t break up with gf she then went with the pregnancy story, are you sure she was?
Idk it all seems very suspicious imo
Take it from me. I was your husband. I was talking to other women all the time. I cheated on my now ex wife. She gave me chance after chance after chance. LEAVE. No more chances. Do not take him back. It took me losing the greatest thing to ever happen to me for me to finally grow up and change. I did not deserve my ex-wife and I hate myself years later for what i did to her, but nothing would have changed if she gave me another chance.
ExWives Undercover group on Facebook is filled with ladies like you and they will give you really good support and really really good advice. Especially in the chat group. I don’t know if you’re on Facebook, but it might be worth your time joining. Several of these ladies have maneuvered the legal systems and managed to get their boyfriends successfully incarcerated.
Many discovered the legal system is not in their favor. Repeatedly all these ladies have the same story, the legal system was not in their favor, and sometimes police and the law and judges barely helped them. The narcissists can sweet talk and lie and sway lawyers’ and judges’ opinions against you.
Be prepared, the legal system isn’t in your favor. You may have a hell of a time with this. The law may say that until he gets violent, there’s nothing they can do. There are women who have been in your situation and can help you if you will reach out.
Talk to your parents – get perspective and support. Talk to a lawyer – make sure you know what you can and can't do. THEN. AND ONLY THEN.
Talk to your partner. Do absolutely not confront your partner WITHOUT talking to a lawyer first.