We have never had a great relationship and she is much closer to my sister. She has always been terrible at communicating with me and i usually have to be the one to break the silence
She is not a wonderful persons. That comment, “I just don’t cut people off like that”, acting like she is somehow morally superior, says everything. She is bullshit and totally not your friend, because a friend would NEVER do this.
Get some toys, watch some porn on your own, figure out what makes you get there all the way.
You have 2 separate issues…one is rather you're still figuring out how to finish, and that's ok! The separate issue is that you feel your boyfriend isn't even trying to help you finish any more.
I mean, your guy is a coward, which is a really unattractive quality in a man. Maybe he should go take some self-defense classes? Idk, ai would just bail, for real.
I’m sorry but certain topics are a deal breaker for me. And I think you made the right call.
Aren’t the people who are saying it’s a mental health issue the same people that have made behavioral health benefits nearly impossible to receive? I do think there is a small portion of the LGBTQ community that are having an identity crisis or there wouldn’t be a group questioning, right? Maybe if they had access to a healthy safe environment to be themselves they wouldn’t be questioning their identity because they would know. I think this whole debate has made it so much harder for the community to understand themselves because they’re always looking over their shoulder on who is going to judge them. Maybe not everyone, but at least some. I think this is the biggest heartbreak. Your ex can’t pull himself out of his one train of thought mentality to be empathetic. And, like you said, which I agree, if no one is hurting anyone then why should an outsider care? It’s not our place to judge.
BIL should go for custody of the older child too. If BIL acted like a father, still wants to be the father the court may grant him custody in the next interest of the child.
You can’t fault someone by the actions of another. What his mom doesn’t necessarily have anything to do with him. You will have to deal with her long term if you commit to him but that’s part of being a civil adult, dealing with people you don’t like or agree with.
you gotta let this go. You should have never read through her diary. Shes writing thoughts on paper that most of us have thought in our heads many times over the years about our spouses. The clowning around with others happened when she was 18. Do not hold judgement on a teenager. We all think a lot differently than we did 20 years ago. I think most have a first love or one that got away and they'll always be in our minds. You have to move forward and drop it. Get therapy to help deal with your current thoughts.
File for a restraining over like yesterday. You have more than enough evidence. When you go to court and if he also has a lawyer you can give the ring to your lawyer to give to him.
Thats the only safe option. Thats what I did with my ex. And block his family. Also reach out to domestic violence centers/organizations near you. Mine hooked me up with security cameras, a victim advocate to attend court with me, a lawyer, counseling sessions, and a victim support group.
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where? what are you talking about? sorry
We have never had a great relationship and she is much closer to my sister. She has always been terrible at communicating with me and i usually have to be the one to break the silence
Red flagggggggg
We will keep inviting them although I have had the thought of “might as well stop asking” at times, but I don’t want to come off as mean or petty
She is not a wonderful persons. That comment, “I just don’t cut people off like that”, acting like she is somehow morally superior, says everything. She is bullshit and totally not your friend, because a friend would NEVER do this.
Get another boyfriend.
Get some toys, watch some porn on your own, figure out what makes you get there all the way.
You have 2 separate issues…one is rather you're still figuring out how to finish, and that's ok! The separate issue is that you feel your boyfriend isn't even trying to help you finish any more.
Yes I do.
I mean, your guy is a coward, which is a really unattractive quality in a man. Maybe he should go take some self-defense classes? Idk, ai would just bail, for real.
Shes a shit person. Dont trade your dignity for a little comfort.
Being poly is a deal-breaker for monogamous people. Deal with it.
OMG break up with her. It's not like this is going to get any better.
I’m sorry but certain topics are a deal breaker for me. And I think you made the right call.
Aren’t the people who are saying it’s a mental health issue the same people that have made behavioral health benefits nearly impossible to receive? I do think there is a small portion of the LGBTQ community that are having an identity crisis or there wouldn’t be a group questioning, right? Maybe if they had access to a healthy safe environment to be themselves they wouldn’t be questioning their identity because they would know. I think this whole debate has made it so much harder for the community to understand themselves because they’re always looking over their shoulder on who is going to judge them. Maybe not everyone, but at least some. I think this is the biggest heartbreak. Your ex can’t pull himself out of his one train of thought mentality to be empathetic. And, like you said, which I agree, if no one is hurting anyone then why should an outsider care? It’s not our place to judge.
If I were the bf, and innocent, this is the part where I’d dump my crazy gf and her annoying af cat lol.
BIL should go for custody of the older child too. If BIL acted like a father, still wants to be the father the court may grant him custody in the next interest of the child.
Invite someone else in his place for the vacation and actually enjoy yourself
You can’t fault someone by the actions of another. What his mom doesn’t necessarily have anything to do with him. You will have to deal with her long term if you commit to him but that’s part of being a civil adult, dealing with people you don’t like or agree with.
you gotta let this go. You should have never read through her diary. Shes writing thoughts on paper that most of us have thought in our heads many times over the years about our spouses. The clowning around with others happened when she was 18. Do not hold judgement on a teenager. We all think a lot differently than we did 20 years ago. I think most have a first love or one that got away and they'll always be in our minds. You have to move forward and drop it. Get therapy to help deal with your current thoughts.
File for a restraining over like yesterday. You have more than enough evidence. When you go to court and if he also has a lawyer you can give the ring to your lawyer to give to him.
Thats the only safe option. Thats what I did with my ex. And block his family. Also reach out to domestic violence centers/organizations near you. Mine hooked me up with security cameras, a victim advocate to attend court with me, a lawyer, counseling sessions, and a victim support group.