In NYC, a couple with this background would be expected to hire a nanny and pay 60-80K plus bennies. A little bit wealthier and it could hit 100K/bennies.
It's really heartbreaking thr only reason they've continued behaving this way is because your boyfriend has allowed it to continue
Yes he can't change how they behave but he certainly could choose to go low contact to no contact and tell them to fuck off
As hurt as you are by his parents the real issue is HIM he's associating with toxic people and doesn't see the issue what does that say about him? After this incident think about the prior problems!? What has he actively done to approach his parents when their out of line? Like has he set strict boundaries with them? Because personally for me I will say this if they go out of their way to reject you as a partner I'd be deeply hurt by my parents actions and I wouldn't hesitate to say how awful they are!
Personally I think you'll need to decide if you even want to continue to date him that or you'll have to accept if your gonna stay this is what most likely will continue to happen since he won't do shit about it! And I can't imagine what it would be like if your suddenly had kids with this guy! Would these toxic people ? bully and hurt your future children…. you'll have so much to think about
Hey, really sorry, but this is so long I haven't read it all, but ultimately…there doesn't need to be a reason or bad relationship for you to want to end it.
If it doesn't feel right there is absolutely no point staying and trying to make it right when it simply isn't.
I mean, since you feel that way the relationship is doomed to failure anyway, but if the person in question presents as female, had surgery to present as so in such a convincing way that you can't tell it isn't biological, and you apparently liked her well enough… I dunno. She's a “man” only in your head at this point. No one can tell you how to feel though. I wonder if in a 100 years' time stories like these will leave people bemused, “what was the big deal?”
I would cut her some slack on not leading with “hi, I'm trans” as that could literally put her life in danger in some situations.
Well. Honestly it's hot to say what is going on. But my guess would be he is into you and these vague friend type gestures are just confusing him about what you want. Also it seems you may not even know yourself what you want.
she’s in a relationship with my dad and not me. I don’t have to go out with her.
Damn, you were cute to anybody you wanted, huh?
Don’t talk to her about, just try being more dominant+kinky and less lovey dovey + throw in some dirty talk, she’s obviously hankering for this
It's a very odd situation. Mom/MIL did nothing wrong
In NYC, a couple with this background would be expected to hire a nanny and pay 60-80K plus bennies. A little bit wealthier and it could hit 100K/bennies.
It's really heartbreaking thr only reason they've continued behaving this way is because your boyfriend has allowed it to continue
Yes he can't change how they behave but he certainly could choose to go low contact to no contact and tell them to fuck off
As hurt as you are by his parents the real issue is HIM he's associating with toxic people and doesn't see the issue what does that say about him? After this incident think about the prior problems!? What has he actively done to approach his parents when their out of line? Like has he set strict boundaries with them? Because personally for me I will say this if they go out of their way to reject you as a partner I'd be deeply hurt by my parents actions and I wouldn't hesitate to say how awful they are!
Personally I think you'll need to decide if you even want to continue to date him that or you'll have to accept if your gonna stay this is what most likely will continue to happen since he won't do shit about it! And I can't imagine what it would be like if your suddenly had kids with this guy! Would these toxic people ? bully and hurt your future children…. you'll have so much to think about
My God stop already. What's wrong with idiots that automatically tell everyone to break up.
Hey, really sorry, but this is so long I haven't read it all, but ultimately…there doesn't need to be a reason or bad relationship for you to want to end it.
If it doesn't feel right there is absolutely no point staying and trying to make it right when it simply isn't.
Downloading is weird here. Immature people?. You're absolutely right
I mean, since you feel that way the relationship is doomed to failure anyway, but if the person in question presents as female, had surgery to present as so in such a convincing way that you can't tell it isn't biological, and you apparently liked her well enough… I dunno. She's a “man” only in your head at this point. No one can tell you how to feel though. I wonder if in a 100 years' time stories like these will leave people bemused, “what was the big deal?”
I would cut her some slack on not leading with “hi, I'm trans” as that could literally put her life in danger in some situations.
No not anymore
Well. Honestly it's hot to say what is going on. But my guess would be he is into you and these vague friend type gestures are just confusing him about what you want. Also it seems you may not even know yourself what you want.