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Date: October 8, 2022
Classic dumbass poster dating someone twice their age and finding out they’re not saints. Don’t have any sympathy anymore Christ.
My kid sister (adopted) was the oldest daughter in a similar situation. Mom died of cancer, BioDad immediately like days after Moms death started dating this new woman and she told him to “get rid of” the girls. Her and her sisters spent years in a group home until one of their bio aunts (unrelated to me) became their guardian. I say guardian because the second my niece turned 17.5, she kicked her out literally in the snow and told her to sleep on her car for all she cared.
Luckily, she managed to call my mom on messenger from her iPod, and she came to on-line with us same night. Been with us ever since.
So that’s my cautionary tale. Take it for what it’s worth.
I'd let it die. If he's interested he'll show you and he may just not be interested. Do you have much in common? You're grown adults but he is closer to 40 than 30 so just wondering if that made you feel any way or increased your anxiety?
1,000,000% YES this is extremely controlling
You're in a LDR and that means he has a whole life that doesn't involve you. My suggestion is to schedule a call or FaceTime 2-3 times a week for 30-60 minutes, and stick to that. With any other texting etc should be assumed no response will be given until 24 hrs. If you get a response earlier than that the be very happy you did.
Not the normal version of being closeted, but the reality is that either what you two have now is enough or it is not.
Don't wait around with the expectation it will change.
For me, I'd break up and find someone who isn't afraid of dating me in the open. Sounds like you're about to that point yourself.
Either people do things a lot differently where you online, or your idea of what goes on at parties is way off. It would probably be better for you to actually go to a couple of parties and experience what they're like instead of assuming the worst.
You're generalizing and catastrophizing, and there's a not insignificant touch of misogyny involved here.
Women are individuals and not a hive mind – they have individual tastes and desires. This girl likes to party, but that doesn't tell you anything other than that. You liked the idea of her, but not who she really is and you very obviously wouldn't be supportive of the person she is today. Don't waste her time or make her feel bad for having fun once in a while.
So you have 3 children.
Let’s imagine that you and your wife decide to make the split permanent, and you enter another relationship.
You have 3 children who you are required to support financially at least until they’re 18. So if you add another child or 2 to the mix, paying child support, and you and your now ex wife having to pay for 2 households, how do you plan to cover the following?
Helping your children pay for tertiary education Spending time with your children, attending concerts and sports matches, picking them up from a date or party gone wrong Taking them to doctor and dentist appointments Picking them up from school when they are sick or injured Helping your kids buy their first car Teaching them how to play golf, or ski, or play tennis Shopping with them for a prom outfit Teaching them how to cook your mother’s recipe for roast lamb
Remember that your children need you to commit time as well as money. How do you think that will go if you decide to add another child or 2 to your family? Adding another 18 years on top of your existing commitment?
Blended families are naked work. It’s not impossible, but it takes really good communication from all parties, plus a lot of time and effort. You can read post after post in Reddit from people who felt abandoned as children by the parent who ran off and created Family, The Sequel. And in most cases that relationship never recovered.
Take your wife out of the equation for the moment. Do you want to raise another child? Or 2 or 3? Because if you don’t, why would you keep that door open for a hypothetical woman in the future?
If it's isolated to him it's his problem not yours. Don't let yourself feel bad.
It really is. They are paying for her, not her boyfriend. If they know, they are just being nice. more nice than they have to be. She’s here on a student visa. That’s her resources and what she has to contribute. He’s freeloading.
I wasn’t replying to you, just to the very broad statement above by another commenter
I totally agree with what you’ve said here
Thank you! I'm definitely gonna talk to my mom about it and I want to settle this with him. It was just alot to take in and I want what's best for him and want him to feel loved by a family but first he should focus on loving himself and eventually a partner before even thinking about their family
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