No she wouldn't. Listen to the people giving you advice man.
I think you need to sit down and try and think about why you're doing this, why you're thinking about this now and what you're trying to achieve. Is this really about her or is it about you and your guilt and feelings and wanting to feel better?
If you don't want to come off as a selfish arsehole, leave her be. She won't 'feel great'. I don't know how else to say it but what you're wanting to do is very damaging to say the least. If you really want to make amends, why not research blindness? Why not volunteer at a centre for the blind? Why not donate to a blind people charity?
I love my wife with everything that I have and I would do anything to make it right.
Well, your wife is walking out the door because she is unhappy. I think you need to soak in the severity of her unhappiness.
You mentioned in another comment that you're saving to bring your family closer. And here you say that she and your parents, don't see eye to eye.
So, you're making sure your life is comfortable for you. But telling your wife, you got the kids to entertain you, we will see each other on the weekends. ?
I would suggest to do some deep thinking on what you are realistically willing to do.
Moving to where her family is, is a marriage salvaging option. Changing jobs to be more available in her life, is a salvaging option. Maybe taking up a lower paying job and lesser home for the sake of keeping the marriage, is a salvaging option.
Because if you are fully capable of going to those lengths… it would be better for her to hear you suggest it, than for her to request it.
OP said $150,000 is what the Fiancé actually has, on his own, to contribute to the down payment.
OP answered (multiple times when asked) OP’s own contribution, is $150,000.
Average price of homes in OP’s area is $1.5 million & 20% down (required). 1.5 million X 20% = $300,000 (Fiancé $ + OP $)
So either Fiancé Brother’s money isn’t really needed OR is an additional $150,000 over/above the required down payment ($450,000) OR the OP isn’t contributing anything (-0-) themselves…in which case 2 Liars make for a perfect marriage.
That's funny because this guy told me he likes women with large breasts and red hair.
“Horny all the time” to the extent that you need sex constantly is not normal or healthy. Learn to control yourself.
You say Charlie likes to leave this marks – how do YOU feel about this?
So you were 26 and she was 18. You tried to raise her for 7 years. You brought this on yourself.
how in the world am i being downvoted for this? says a lot more about yall than it does about me
No she wouldn't. Listen to the people giving you advice man.
I think you need to sit down and try and think about why you're doing this, why you're thinking about this now and what you're trying to achieve. Is this really about her or is it about you and your guilt and feelings and wanting to feel better?
If you don't want to come off as a selfish arsehole, leave her be. She won't 'feel great'. I don't know how else to say it but what you're wanting to do is very damaging to say the least. If you really want to make amends, why not research blindness? Why not volunteer at a centre for the blind? Why not donate to a blind people charity?
Eat glass
I had a roommate with a skin condition that messed with her body’s smell. Maybe it’s a medical issue? Or maybe she isn’t washing herself properly?
I love my wife with everything that I have and I would do anything to make it right.
Well, your wife is walking out the door because she is unhappy. I think you need to soak in the severity of her unhappiness.
You mentioned in another comment that you're saving to bring your family closer. And here you say that she and your parents, don't see eye to eye.
So, you're making sure your life is comfortable for you. But telling your wife, you got the kids to entertain you, we will see each other on the weekends. ?
I would suggest to do some deep thinking on what you are realistically willing to do.
Moving to where her family is, is a marriage salvaging option. Changing jobs to be more available in her life, is a salvaging option. Maybe taking up a lower paying job and lesser home for the sake of keeping the marriage, is a salvaging option.
Because if you are fully capable of going to those lengths… it would be better for her to hear you suggest it, than for her to request it.
Postpone the move-in by at least a year. Both people need to want it, or it won't work.
Bro. He using his gf as an excuse to get out of work and play with legos. I think he's peaked.
He sounds like a spoilt 13 year old. You can do better.
That's really sweet thank you
I have 14w of paternity leave in the US.
Just trying to understand the numbers…
OP said $150,000 is what the Fiancé actually has, on his own, to contribute to the down payment.
OP answered (multiple times when asked) OP’s own contribution, is $150,000.
Average price of homes in OP’s area is $1.5 million & 20% down (required). 1.5 million X 20% = $300,000 (Fiancé $ + OP $)
So either Fiancé Brother’s money isn’t really needed OR is an additional $150,000 over/above the required down payment ($450,000) OR the OP isn’t contributing anything (-0-) themselves…in which case 2 Liars make for a perfect marriage.