Don’t leave anything behind while you’re out that your brother could use to get money in your name; bank statements, identification, financial info, credit card statements, anything. You do t have to be around him if you don’t want. So t feel guilted into it.
Uhhhhh. You cannot reclassify her uncle into something else now. It's too late. Either he's uncle or your wife stops bringing uncle around and to never let him back in or in proximity.
Should you both decide to keep him around, let him be uncle. Easy to explain from her perspective. To anybody else who asks you, it's a really good friend. And for those who really know you, it's your wife's bf.
Don't complicate things for her. You and your wife did that all by yourselves. Now you bare the consequences. Protect your daughter's innocence and don't get all technical on her because you feel a certain way about her boyfriend being around a lot and playing an uncle role.
Or, you go the wildcard route. Bring a puppy or a girlfriend home to complicate your lives even more. Without any consideration of who your daughter is bonding to and why you should have some foresight into her development with who you bring/keep around.
That’s just another reason she should invest in her relationship with him tbh. No point in living with regrets! Learn what you can, do better, and keep pushing forward.
This might blow up in your face, but the risk may be worth it if the alternative is being in a sexless marriage for the rest of your life. You got the go-ahead from your wife so go ahead.
I don’t have that setting turned on
Don’t leave anything behind while you’re out that your brother could use to get money in your name; bank statements, identification, financial info, credit card statements, anything. You do t have to be around him if you don’t want. So t feel guilted into it.
It's totally ok for him to want that, it's totally ok for you not to want that. Leave if you don't.
Uhhhhh. You cannot reclassify her uncle into something else now. It's too late. Either he's uncle or your wife stops bringing uncle around and to never let him back in or in proximity.
Should you both decide to keep him around, let him be uncle. Easy to explain from her perspective. To anybody else who asks you, it's a really good friend. And for those who really know you, it's your wife's bf.
Don't complicate things for her. You and your wife did that all by yourselves. Now you bare the consequences. Protect your daughter's innocence and don't get all technical on her because you feel a certain way about her boyfriend being around a lot and playing an uncle role.
Or, you go the wildcard route. Bring a puppy or a girlfriend home to complicate your lives even more. Without any consideration of who your daughter is bonding to and why you should have some foresight into her development with who you bring/keep around.
That’s just another reason she should invest in her relationship with him tbh. No point in living with regrets! Learn what you can, do better, and keep pushing forward.
This might blow up in your face, but the risk may be worth it if the alternative is being in a sexless marriage for the rest of your life. You got the go-ahead from your wife so go ahead.
How long does it take?!? Until hell freezes over!!! I’d never get someone’s tattoo on me. What if we break up?
We actually spoke tonight and he says he’s going to stop (we’ll see..). Are you in recovery? Do you know of any good resources or places to start?
Doesn’t it mean that she’d enjoy it if his dick had more girth tho?