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When my significant other and I first got together I didn't know how to cook but I was willing to learn. It started with us cooking together and he would do the meat or entree and I learned to do simple sides. Over the last 10 years it's progressed and I've actually learned to like cooking for him and we generally share the cooking when he is home. I think maybe he just wants to know you are willing to try, not that he wants you to cook 100% of the time.
Once you get some confidence you may find you dont hate it and it'll be more friendly on your money for sure.
Sometimes in life we have to compromise and do things we don't like. I hate doing dishes but at the end of the day they still need to be done.
I'm sorry this happened to you, it's a horrible thing to be hurt by the person who claims that they love you. But you need to leave asap. Don't stay. I know you imagined a life with this person but, it's not worth being with an abuser. Call the cops and pack your bags.
Speaking from experience, I do not think you will ever be able to move past what he said even if you wanted to. Personally, I don’t think you should. As the original commenter said, believe people when they tell you who they are and what they think. However, I also think that you will hear those words in your head every time you look at him or every time you try to be intimate with him in the future. What he said cuts to the core of what a good relationship needs to have a solid foundation. He just took a jackhammer to that foundation. It hurts and it’s embarrassing to have to admit what feels like having chosen a spouse poorly, but it’s a lot less painful than the abuse he seems intent on visiting you. 8 months is still within the honeymoon phase for most couples and he couldn’t even pretend to be kind and caring for that long? RUN GIRL. You deserve happiness and respect. It may be worth talking to his children’s mother about any behavior he exhibited with her in the past that might concern you. Plan your exit quietly and safely and don’t be afraid to use your support system. Good luck.
I understand, you want to share everything with someone (and food can be a very good medium for getting close to someone) and to have someone not want to engage in that can make you disappointed and if it happened often enough that it was a pattern, I'd understand that some resentment or anger would built up. Best way to handle this, have an intentional conversation about this. Just explain how you feel and your perspective on these events and ask him to explain the sane so that you both understand and work from there.
We still have sex and are intimate during daytime naps. She goes to bed with the baby now and honestly I can understand why shes tired, our baby never learned to self soothe so shes up constantly throughout the night. I truly feel like our problems could be resolved so easily by sleep training and moving our baby to its own bed but at a certain point I dont want to start a fight when I know shes thinks shes doing what is best for our baby, even though im certain she’s misguided.
Sweetheart, You didn't “make” him do anything. He punched the wall because he wanted to frighten you into being quiet.
I doubt his previous gf apologised, he's telling you that you try to get you to do so, it's a form of control. Getting YOU to apologise for HIM being abusive. In time, he'll start hitting you, tell you it's your fault, and expect you to apologise.
He's grooming you to accept abuse in your relationship.
There's no magic trick. If you're honest and genuine your words and actions will convey. If you do too much it comes off as insincere. Just be you as honestly as possible and forgive yourself. Look at this like you're a different person cause you are. You've learned from your past you and you're better because of it. Don't be too hard on yourself, and just be you, if she cares that's all she wants anyway.
Don't date married women, that's cheating and it sounds like to me that she's not in a good place mentally due to the guilt of cheating or whatever, but it would certainly explain her mood swings.
“Breakup” with this woman and find a new partner cause I can tell this isn't going to end well for you.
When my significant other and I first got together I didn't know how to cook but I was willing to learn. It started with us cooking together and he would do the meat or entree and I learned to do simple sides. Over the last 10 years it's progressed and I've actually learned to like cooking for him and we generally share the cooking when he is home. I think maybe he just wants to know you are willing to try, not that he wants you to cook 100% of the time.
Once you get some confidence you may find you dont hate it and it'll be more friendly on your money for sure.
Sometimes in life we have to compromise and do things we don't like. I hate doing dishes but at the end of the day they still need to be done.
Reddit. Reddit is what happened to friendships. You're not allowed to have them anymore because Reddit.
I'm sorry this happened to you, it's a horrible thing to be hurt by the person who claims that they love you. But you need to leave asap. Don't stay. I know you imagined a life with this person but, it's not worth being with an abuser. Call the cops and pack your bags.
Speaking from experience, I do not think you will ever be able to move past what he said even if you wanted to. Personally, I don’t think you should. As the original commenter said, believe people when they tell you who they are and what they think. However, I also think that you will hear those words in your head every time you look at him or every time you try to be intimate with him in the future. What he said cuts to the core of what a good relationship needs to have a solid foundation. He just took a jackhammer to that foundation. It hurts and it’s embarrassing to have to admit what feels like having chosen a spouse poorly, but it’s a lot less painful than the abuse he seems intent on visiting you. 8 months is still within the honeymoon phase for most couples and he couldn’t even pretend to be kind and caring for that long? RUN GIRL. You deserve happiness and respect. It may be worth talking to his children’s mother about any behavior he exhibited with her in the past that might concern you. Plan your exit quietly and safely and don’t be afraid to use your support system. Good luck.
I understand, you want to share everything with someone (and food can be a very good medium for getting close to someone) and to have someone not want to engage in that can make you disappointed and if it happened often enough that it was a pattern, I'd understand that some resentment or anger would built up. Best way to handle this, have an intentional conversation about this. Just explain how you feel and your perspective on these events and ask him to explain the sane so that you both understand and work from there.
We still have sex and are intimate during daytime naps. She goes to bed with the baby now and honestly I can understand why shes tired, our baby never learned to self soothe so shes up constantly throughout the night. I truly feel like our problems could be resolved so easily by sleep training and moving our baby to its own bed but at a certain point I dont want to start a fight when I know shes thinks shes doing what is best for our baby, even though im certain she’s misguided.
Sweetheart, You didn't “make” him do anything. He punched the wall because he wanted to frighten you into being quiet.
I doubt his previous gf apologised, he's telling you that you try to get you to do so, it's a form of control. Getting YOU to apologise for HIM being abusive. In time, he'll start hitting you, tell you it's your fault, and expect you to apologise.
He's grooming you to accept abuse in your relationship.
GET OUT NOW.
There's no magic trick. If you're honest and genuine your words and actions will convey. If you do too much it comes off as insincere. Just be you as honestly as possible and forgive yourself. Look at this like you're a different person cause you are. You've learned from your past you and you're better because of it. Don't be too hard on yourself, and just be you, if she cares that's all she wants anyway.
Don't date married women, that's cheating and it sounds like to me that she's not in a good place mentally due to the guilt of cheating or whatever, but it would certainly explain her mood swings.
“Breakup” with this woman and find a new partner cause I can tell this isn't going to end well for you.