It's probably not going to change just because she breaks up with you to go find someone else. She needs to understand herself better to be able to teach another man. Right now, you are probably the man most dedicated to finding out what makes her cum on this planet and she shouldn't take it for granted. Tell her to ask around her female friends, how man of them have been interacting with guys who are devoted to pleasing them over and over no matter how long it takes other than a boyfriend.
I have a friend that basically had your story. They chose a donor, got IVF and his triplets are now learning to drive. The donor they chose was close to his height and had similar ethnicity (Eastern European). Looking at them, you would never guess they weren't his biological children, not that it matters.
Also, consider adoption. Yes, there are lots of horror stories about how difficult it is, but it doesn't have to be. I had a female friend who knew she was infertile. She had a condition where she looked female externally, but her internal female organs never developed. Anyway, she married. She and her husband started the adoption process right away. They were both white with advanced college degrees and great jobs.
So they took the classes and their home study went well. So they next step was an interview to find out what kind of child they wanted to adopt. It went something like this:
So you want an infant? They said not necessarily. They were in their early 30s and said they'd take a child up to age 7 or so.
So you want the child to be white? They said they didn't care.
They asked if they'd be willing to take siblings. They said sure!
They assumed they would want a child without health problems. They said they could probably handle it if it wasn't anything too serious.
In other words, they just wanted to be parents, just like you and your wife. So a couple of months went by and they got a call. The agency said “We have 3 year old twin Latino boys with a slight learning delay”. My friend and her husband said “When can we pick them up?”
That was that. They were parents of 3 year olds before their first wedding anniversary!
Your man is bisexual. Period. And for whatever reason he’s not comfortable being openly gay so this is gonna keep happening. He didn’t have sexual relations because he was in a bad spot. He did it because he’s bi and he likes d. Simple.
Do both. Talk to him ánd take a break. If you let this go on he will get comfortable and see no need to work again…
It's probably not going to change just because she breaks up with you to go find someone else. She needs to understand herself better to be able to teach another man. Right now, you are probably the man most dedicated to finding out what makes her cum on this planet and she shouldn't take it for granted. Tell her to ask around her female friends, how man of them have been interacting with guys who are devoted to pleasing them over and over no matter how long it takes other than a boyfriend.
Lmao nice try vagina spammer
I think I'll just learn to appreciate being alone
“I forgave him instantly and was just thankful it was me and not our daughter he took it out on”
This mentality is going to get you killed one day
It’s a lose lose then. Keep getting crap for not being home or prove they are lying and risk getting kicked out.
I have a friend that basically had your story. They chose a donor, got IVF and his triplets are now learning to drive. The donor they chose was close to his height and had similar ethnicity (Eastern European). Looking at them, you would never guess they weren't his biological children, not that it matters.
Also, consider adoption. Yes, there are lots of horror stories about how difficult it is, but it doesn't have to be. I had a female friend who knew she was infertile. She had a condition where she looked female externally, but her internal female organs never developed. Anyway, she married. She and her husband started the adoption process right away. They were both white with advanced college degrees and great jobs.
So they took the classes and their home study went well. So they next step was an interview to find out what kind of child they wanted to adopt. It went something like this:
So you want an infant? They said not necessarily. They were in their early 30s and said they'd take a child up to age 7 or so.
So you want the child to be white? They said they didn't care.
They asked if they'd be willing to take siblings. They said sure!
They assumed they would want a child without health problems. They said they could probably handle it if it wasn't anything too serious.
In other words, they just wanted to be parents, just like you and your wife. So a couple of months went by and they got a call. The agency said “We have 3 year old twin Latino boys with a slight learning delay”. My friend and her husband said “When can we pick them up?”
That was that. They were parents of 3 year olds before their first wedding anniversary!
Your man is bisexual. Period. And for whatever reason he’s not comfortable being openly gay so this is gonna keep happening. He didn’t have sexual relations because he was in a bad spot. He did it because he’s bi and he likes d. Simple.