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Just cause you were together 21 years, doesn't mean you have to stay together. The requirement to continue a relationship isn't based on the length, the good early days, or even kids. It is about it being healthy. If you haven't been in a healthy relationship for a long time and get gaslighted then you are long overdue to ending this. A relationship doesn't equal happiness. A healthy lifestyle is. If a relationship is toxic then you need to let it go. A relationship fails when things get too comfortable where they take advantage, stop putting effort, and everything is taken for granted. A relationship is a marathon not a sprint. If they stopped putting effort to maintain a healthy relationship then time for things to end.
So there's no way to just talk it out with him? He's never violent or mean to me, this is something I just caught him doing yesterday. He didn't even argue or fight me on it. He just told me whenever I talk to them he gets nervous
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Maybe something happened in their college days that you don't know about. Maybe Kate has outshone her many times and she thought this was her one time to be the best, only to have the limelight stolen again. I know your wife set this all in motion, but she didn't foresee this and it seems it was like the final straw.
Because it is so irrational and out of proportion leads to the idea that there is a bigger back story here
What offended me was your making this about gender.
It is bad when ANYONE gets SA. Inserting a dialogue of women getting some kind of privileged status in rape or assault is dismissive and insulting.
There are plenty of people in this thread, and in the original post that are calling out OP for assaulting someone. Yet you say such things 'never' happen.
The reason we have a divide is because of people like you, who instead of looking at the commonalities, and actually looking at what is happening, insert a misogynistic narrative. “If it was a woman getting assaulted NO ONE would be giving OP a pass!!”
Here, a woman tells you, it happens all the time.
I did get therapy, which is why I can speak plainly and clearly about my experiences and stand up for ALL genders that experience sexual assault, without trying to create a divide.
You know, women can be of great support to men who have been assaulted. Stop vilifying us.
Just cause you were together 21 years, doesn't mean you have to stay together. The requirement to continue a relationship isn't based on the length, the good early days, or even kids. It is about it being healthy. If you haven't been in a healthy relationship for a long time and get gaslighted then you are long overdue to ending this. A relationship doesn't equal happiness. A healthy lifestyle is. If a relationship is toxic then you need to let it go. A relationship fails when things get too comfortable where they take advantage, stop putting effort, and everything is taken for granted. A relationship is a marathon not a sprint. If they stopped putting effort to maintain a healthy relationship then time for things to end.
I have no idea
No. Having a career/goals/financial intelligence is what's most important (aside from personality and attraction)
Someone could have a degree, be $50k in student debt, $10k in credit card debt, and bouncing around part-time jobs.
Someone could have no degree and work fulltime making $50k/yr with benefits and no debt
So there's no way to just talk it out with him? He's never violent or mean to me, this is something I just caught him doing yesterday. He didn't even argue or fight me on it. He just told me whenever I talk to them he gets nervous
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Maybe something happened in their college days that you don't know about. Maybe Kate has outshone her many times and she thought this was her one time to be the best, only to have the limelight stolen again. I know your wife set this all in motion, but she didn't foresee this and it seems it was like the final straw.
Because it is so irrational and out of proportion leads to the idea that there is a bigger back story here
What offended me was your making this about gender.
It is bad when ANYONE gets SA. Inserting a dialogue of women getting some kind of privileged status in rape or assault is dismissive and insulting.
There are plenty of people in this thread, and in the original post that are calling out OP for assaulting someone. Yet you say such things 'never' happen.
The reason we have a divide is because of people like you, who instead of looking at the commonalities, and actually looking at what is happening, insert a misogynistic narrative. “If it was a woman getting assaulted NO ONE would be giving OP a pass!!”
Here, a woman tells you, it happens all the time.
I did get therapy, which is why I can speak plainly and clearly about my experiences and stand up for ALL genders that experience sexual assault, without trying to create a divide.
You know, women can be of great support to men who have been assaulted. Stop vilifying us.
Got any motivation for me? ?
Lol at his reaction. Seriously, what an asshole.
If you don’t tell him then you’ll break up and possibly regret it for the rest of your life.
If you do tell him then maybe he’s feeling the same and you have a chance.
You have nothing to lose by telling him.