When you’re really attracted to someone and are in the talking stage, you never forget that they texted you because you are constantly checking your phone for their text. No matter how busy you are
They used you as a babysitter while they were having sex. What do you honestly think you can do other than leave?
He doesn't respect you or your relationship. This woman will always be a part of his life. You know he can't be trusted. He's not a great guy. He's the AH that used you to babysit while he cheated on you.
If you value yourself at all and want any form of self respect, you end it and mourn the relationship you thought you had.
meh I think your obsessing about something you should just let go. People can feel jealous for a variety of reasons. And we'll all just be guessing (im thinking you have romantic jealousy). But why would that even matter? accept it. feelings cannot be not right or wrong. only the action you take thereafter.
From my perspective it's just no longer a healthy friendship and you should move on. she'll be ok
It would be a turnoff for me. She’s an adult woman with her own money, if she wants to treat you or pay her own way she should go ahead and do so. The idea that it hurts your pride for her to…be an adult, basically, seems regressive and sexist.
No problem! From my perspective, It's very possible she's still feeling you out and had a lot going on, that could totally be the case. The only ways to be able to figure out the cause of her distance would be to either ask her flat out, or to allow the distance to happen. If she wants to be close to you she should do her part in closing that distance.
I completely agree with the dude, if he knows he has to wake up in the morning or stay up late to say good morning or good night to you, it becomes a chore not something he does naturally, but something he does because he has to,
and its shitty
Why is it shitty? Does he actively avoid talking with you when you message him, or is he busy with other things? Like, sometimes i don't answer messages until i'm home from work because we're having s busy day or whatever, i really don't think anyone minds it, and i know i don't when others do it either
So like, the reason you fell for her is because she cares for you, cooks and cleans. Literally just because she is someone who values caring for you and shows that. Whose ambition in life is to be a nurse and a mother.
But you miss being independent and having space and freedom.
You can’t have both of those things, my guy. You’re looking for a woman whose life and happiness revolves around caring for and serving others, but who also doesn’t mind if you go out without her as often as you want. That’s a maid.
Look, don’t get me wrong. You of course are entitled to work out, hang with friends, live! your life without emotional blackmail. She sounds exhausting. But also…what did you expect if your literal single criterion was ‘will make me the focus of her life’?
As I said I don't want to leave her. I love her so much and I want her in my life. The thing is that when someone gets abused later on abuses someone else.
That was really shitty of you
When you’re really attracted to someone and are in the talking stage, you never forget that they texted you because you are constantly checking your phone for their text. No matter how busy you are
They used you as a babysitter while they were having sex. What do you honestly think you can do other than leave?
He doesn't respect you or your relationship. This woman will always be a part of his life. You know he can't be trusted. He's not a great guy. He's the AH that used you to babysit while he cheated on you.
If you value yourself at all and want any form of self respect, you end it and mourn the relationship you thought you had.
I completely understand that thanks for your insight on the issues I’m having
I don't understand why I feel jealous
meh I think your obsessing about something you should just let go. People can feel jealous for a variety of reasons. And we'll all just be guessing (im thinking you have romantic jealousy). But why would that even matter? accept it. feelings cannot be not right or wrong. only the action you take thereafter.
From my perspective it's just no longer a healthy friendship and you should move on. she'll be ok
Lmao
It would be a turnoff for me. She’s an adult woman with her own money, if she wants to treat you or pay her own way she should go ahead and do so. The idea that it hurts your pride for her to…be an adult, basically, seems regressive and sexist.
No problem! From my perspective, It's very possible she's still feeling you out and had a lot going on, that could totally be the case. The only ways to be able to figure out the cause of her distance would be to either ask her flat out, or to allow the distance to happen. If she wants to be close to you she should do her part in closing that distance.
I completely agree with the dude, if he knows he has to wake up in the morning or stay up late to say good morning or good night to you, it becomes a chore not something he does naturally, but something he does because he has to,
and its shitty
Why is it shitty? Does he actively avoid talking with you when you message him, or is he busy with other things? Like, sometimes i don't answer messages until i'm home from work because we're having s busy day or whatever, i really don't think anyone minds it, and i know i don't when others do it either
So like, the reason you fell for her is because she cares for you, cooks and cleans. Literally just because she is someone who values caring for you and shows that. Whose ambition in life is to be a nurse and a mother.
But you miss being independent and having space and freedom.
You can’t have both of those things, my guy. You’re looking for a woman whose life and happiness revolves around caring for and serving others, but who also doesn’t mind if you go out without her as often as you want. That’s a maid.
Look, don’t get me wrong. You of course are entitled to work out, hang with friends, live! your life without emotional blackmail. She sounds exhausting. But also…what did you expect if your literal single criterion was ‘will make me the focus of her life’?
Oh it's the “you smell bad” situation again!
Pick out the cutest one and take the prize pool to yourself obv
And I grew up in one, and I’m still the butt of every joke. I’m glad you had a good experience but a lot of people don’t.
As I said I don't want to leave her. I love her so much and I want her in my life. The thing is that when someone gets abused later on abuses someone else.