You don't have anything more to do, stand by your words. “I don't feel comfortable staying in a relationship with you if you go on this trip” whatever he chooses is what happens
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You need to set parameters. Let’s say in 5 years you want to marry her. In 2 years you need to have your finances together. In 3 years buy a house. In 4 years pop the question. And you need to relay all this to her and have her help you.
If you can’t set goals to be met to get married, then stop stringing her along and leave her.
Just tell her that you get to pick the honeymoon if she gets what she wants and pick your dream destination. The honeymoon will be the carrot to get you thru all this.
One of our biggest disagreements is our difference in music taste. Which sounds mundane and simple, but music was and is a huge part of my life. I really enjoy concerts and even going to the orchestra. I enjoy performances. He does not. He'll make it such a big deal and poke fun of me and whatever musical artist(s) we're seeing the entire time. I've explained how that makes me feel. And I'm not giving up my love of music. But maybe I should give up on trying to get him to enjoy it too?
You don't have anything more to do, stand by your words. “I don't feel comfortable staying in a relationship with you if you go on this trip” whatever he chooses is what happens
Heck – maybe she'll want all 4 of them to do the nasty together! I wonder if this dude would hold that against her!
Nah, no issues mate. We seem to agree, OP is a dickhead and his poor GF needs to escape.
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No. Don't invite drama back in your life. FWB with emotional ties never work.
Go out and do wierd shit? No I don't
But thanks buddy
I've had to rehome dogs and if it wasn't because of the kids I would just have divorced and brought the dogs.
I'll give the same answer the last time you posted.
Break up. This isn't working.
You need to set parameters. Let’s say in 5 years you want to marry her. In 2 years you need to have your finances together. In 3 years buy a house. In 4 years pop the question. And you need to relay all this to her and have her help you.
If you can’t set goals to be met to get married, then stop stringing her along and leave her.
Just tell her that you get to pick the honeymoon if she gets what she wants and pick your dream destination. The honeymoon will be the carrot to get you thru all this.
One of our biggest disagreements is our difference in music taste. Which sounds mundane and simple, but music was and is a huge part of my life. I really enjoy concerts and even going to the orchestra. I enjoy performances. He does not. He'll make it such a big deal and poke fun of me and whatever musical artist(s) we're seeing the entire time. I've explained how that makes me feel. And I'm not giving up my love of music. But maybe I should give up on trying to get him to enjoy it too?
Unless the child is wanted by both parents it is never a good idea to keep it imo.
Don’t play games for his amusement. Being single is better than a relationship you have to angst over this much.