I think it’s new-ish, we did it when my wife was pregnant (5 years ago) to screen for any possible genetic issues and learned the sex before she was far enough along to tell on the ultrasound
Having sex in your family's house is not fun. You said it's “away” from everyone else but if it's still IN THEIR HOUSE people can hear you. Even if no one is home it can be hot to get out of your head because someone could drive up any minute.
Maybe try taking her on a nice date and stay at a hotel for the night?
Not saying I even want to or have the energy to cheat. It just sucks to have the punishment for something I didn’t do. I’m actually really happy being monogamous and cheating would be in my own disinterest.
This is quite the opposite of what you commit to when getting married and starting a family. It would be a deal breaker for me for a multitude of reasons.
You are not crazy nor a prude. Whether he cheated or not, he betrayed your trust and you have every right to feel the way that you do. I am so sorry OP, nobody deserves to be treated that way and I can understand how you might be feeling. I'm not sure of your situation however, I would recommend splitting with this guy. This is a big deal breaker, especially being together for 3 years. Don't let this person do this to you, you can find someone better who will treat you right, or don't. It's better to be alone than treated badly. Don't waste any more energy on this loser.
Ever since they sent me that odd disjointed message, my feelings of wanting a romantic relationship went right out the window. I valued our connection as friends more than I did pursuing a romance, and that is more or less what I'd like to recover.
I'd just go ahead and tell the group, or a sizable percentage of them, that you can no longer be around her.
Don't worry, the word will get around. Groups are like that.
I think it’s new-ish, we did it when my wife was pregnant (5 years ago) to screen for any possible genetic issues and learned the sex before she was far enough along to tell on the ultrasound
Having sex in your family's house is not fun. You said it's “away” from everyone else but if it's still IN THEIR HOUSE people can hear you. Even if no one is home it can be hot to get out of your head because someone could drive up any minute.
Maybe try taking her on a nice date and stay at a hotel for the night?
Not saying I even want to or have the energy to cheat. It just sucks to have the punishment for something I didn’t do. I’m actually really happy being monogamous and cheating would be in my own disinterest.
You're 27 years old
This is quite the opposite of what you commit to when getting married and starting a family. It would be a deal breaker for me for a multitude of reasons.
You are not crazy nor a prude. Whether he cheated or not, he betrayed your trust and you have every right to feel the way that you do. I am so sorry OP, nobody deserves to be treated that way and I can understand how you might be feeling. I'm not sure of your situation however, I would recommend splitting with this guy. This is a big deal breaker, especially being together for 3 years. Don't let this person do this to you, you can find someone better who will treat you right, or don't. It's better to be alone than treated badly. Don't waste any more energy on this loser.
Ever since they sent me that odd disjointed message, my feelings of wanting a romantic relationship went right out the window. I valued our connection as friends more than I did pursuing a romance, and that is more or less what I'd like to recover.