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Mini Mia, 21 y.o.
Location: Nowhere, United States
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Date: November 6, 2022
As you said, “she would want me to move on.” Add “at my own pace” to it and tell your friends and family to respect that. By dating before you are ready to you risk hurting someone else. Stuck with your gut and give it a bit more time.
Aw, a low sex drive will not help with your train of thought either. I don't have too much advice to offer I'm sorry, just try keep up the communicate and an open dialouge. But hopefully this is something you can tackle personally, and I'm sure you will. You seem quite aware and confident of yourself (which is a good thing!!)
I've condensed a year of back and forth into a couple of sentences. I was the one who vetoed kids on his behalf until he pushed back. His position was that I wanted them now and he wanted them at some point but when the fertility part came into play we knew we didn't have the luxury of choosing later. He insisted at this point. Admittedly not because he was ready but because of the circumstances. Given the context of how invested he had been in the preceding years, the bottom line was an enthusiastic yes on both parts.
It's really insensitive and irresponsible to accuse someone (who is openly feeling very fragile) of putting pressure on their loved one and of directly causing a real personal crisis they're seeking advice for off such a small piece of the whole. I did say I pulled away from the idea so as not to put pressure on him but you've thrown it back at me and insulted my husband without even adding anything remotely like advice.
I'm guessing you're not ugly, otherwise you wouldn't even be a side piece. I don't know you or have pictures, but I'm assuming it has little to do with looks.
Why does he treat you this way? Quick answer – because you let him treat you this way. It's happened multiple times, you've allowed it. Long answer is he has low morals, is self centered, enjoys using people. He's found you, and will continue to use you for as long as he can or until he can find someone else to use.
He doesn't only do it to you, he does it to who he's dating. Also if he uses you as a side relationship, I guarantee he uses someone else if he can lock it down.
Does he have feelings for you AND other women? In high school I did this – I sort of cared for both girls. I honestly only regret breaking up with the 'side' girl, as I did truly love her. But again, I was a selfish piece of shit. I felt superior and took what I wanted, giving nothing back.
End of the day, your the catalyst to this whole situation. You feel miss treated, and rightfully so. If you want a better situation you need to tell him to go fuck himself and find something a lot more healthy for you.
My first thought reading that was “Well he can pick a direction and fuck off in it”.
You’re the breadwinner, primary caretaker and are doing all that whilst dealing with depression and this fool is bitching you out for not being sporty enough?
No. He’s seven shades of wrong.