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Date: October 19, 2022
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And why can't you or she rent the house?
Only gonna get worse. She knows how you reacted to what she has told you and now she’ll keep shit to herself because she doesn’t want you to act like you are now. If you can’t move on and let it go like it doesn’t bother you, I’d end it. Good luck brother
Ok, let's view some cold, very hot facts.
This happened before you had he began a relationship. She was 19. That also means she was an adult, and probably had quite a bit to do with the acquaintance becoming an emotional, then physical, relationship. Given the above, it's not as if he was a pedo, but you're reacting as if he had been. Your conception of power differential is a generalization. Not all 19 year old women are the same, as each is quite different in emotional maturity, physical development, intelligence, and emotional articularity. As well, remember that females are typically two years more emotionally developed than most males, so from a maturity standpoint, she was emotionally 21, if not 22 or 23. They both realized the temporary nature of the relationship, and ended it. That further points to her emotional maturity.
So why, specifically, do you feel “embarrassed and lied to?” Nothing in your post would point to a valid reason for embarrassment, and your bf's assertion that they were both adults was not a lie, but a (correct) statement of fact.
Given the nature of the relationship you and your bf have shared, you're either allowing your skewed perception of a pre-existing relationship to call into question his character, or perhaps looking for any reason to justify a subconscious reason to break up an otherwise great relationship. It's time to get the snakes out of your head if you want the relationship to continue.
I wish him well.
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Seriously calm the fuck down, I obviously know there is no current cure for cancer. But you're obviously the only person on earth who's ever been through anything difficult. You're not clarifying your meaning by spazzing the fuck out like that.
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It isn’t a non sequitur just because you don’t understand it. This is an advice sub, not a place for trolls. I don’t care how many downvotes I get. Your comment was obnoxious and unnecessarily rude.
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Currently he lives in the same town as them and we see them maybe once every other month or so. We do plan on moving in about a year and a half. He’s willing to talk to them but he doesn’t think it will change anything.
Cool story what advice do you need?
Wow, your bf had no idea bigger dicks than his existed. At 35. Must be quite the reveal for him… Honestly, it's so immature. Especially that you were not even fantasizing out loud about having a bigger dick than his available. You were saying that the big ones hurt. Which, yeah they do. And it's not nice. So what, he'd rather have a huge dick that you don't enjoy? I would say the only thing for you to do is to wait for him to mature but that may be a while. Let him sulk, don't enable him. He is being ridiculous.
You got a glow up and are more attractive now but desperate to get the attention of a married man with a kid on the way? You need a personality glow up.
I mean. Look.
I also use masturbation as a sleep aid, so I totally get that part of it. My husband is cool with it. I don’t utilize porn, but I do often use a wand toy. We certainly don’t have sex every single night as we’re going to bed. That sounds… tedious and transactional. So on nights when we aren’t feeling the full sexy time, I go solo.
THAT SAID. If my husband expressed a sincere discomfort, neglect, or hurt because of my masturbating so often? I would absolutely stop. Now, I’d want to explore the conversation more and work out why those feelings are there, but my reaction would never be to ignore his discomfort or give him an ultimatum of getting me off himself every night. That would be a super unhealthy response. And if it was over PORN? Come on, guy. Porn can be an enjoyable thing to consume, but it’s hardly a necessity worth injuring your relationship over. That’s a hard monogamy boundary for some people, and if she’s setting that boundary loud and clear you’re going to have to acknowledge it (not just stomp all over it).
This reads an awful lot like you just want validation for douchebag behavior. And that compromise? She’ll have sex with you more to keep you away from porn? Yeah, that’s likely to just result in resentment as she feels obligated to keep you “faithful” via giving her body to you even if she’s not in the mood. Shitty, my guy.
Speak to him clearly.
that you know of
Just stop washing your ass for a couple weeks and then ask him to go down on you, he'll get the message.
As long as you keep giving, she will keep taking. Best to cut your losses now!
Just walk away. Her reasons may be valid, but you're not a priority, and there's nothing you can say that will change that. No need to even address it, just walk away.
I honestly don't know how she hasn't already…
We’ve been trying actually. I graduate in the summer so we had waited until the birth would be after that. Obviously we will not be trying more anytime soon.
Block her from your bank accounts and credit cards. Get her to pack her shit up and move out. Speak to an attorney to get custody of your son, hire a nanny for him if you don’t have a family member who can look after your son whilst you work. Get an std check and get a dna test done on your son.
You act like I’m 19. IM 30 ! We were both career people who enjoyed the same things, had similar values, and wanted to make a family!
I don’t have any regrets having a child with a man who waited till he was capable and mature enough before being a child into this world.
Better than being broke teenagers with no marketable skills to sustain ourselves independently.
Get a lease agreement and renters insurance if you are going to be paying rent. Protect yourself.
What happens in the privacy of a bedroom, car, Laundromat whatever suits you is WAAAYYY different than sending what's usually an unsolicited photo.
Whatever the reason, some disclosure is definitely appropriate considering it's literally bleeding.
Question: how old is this kid?