He could still be my dad in 15 more years lmao but yes I understand what you're saying. Oddly enough we have a shit ton in common and he's just now establishing his career.
Thank you for your response. It's how he refers to his circumstances (he says situation and circumstances interchangeably and not condition or diagnosis so I use what he uses, but referenced what others may call it for context. And your right on the misspelling… on TikTok there are a series of videos that talked about changing the spelling to “take ownership” of the term (similarly to what Black people did with taking ther 'er off the n‐….word.) I was attempting to connect with those in the community while not offending.
And I can also take car of my daughter and have a relationship (in general).
If you want something organic, you're going to have to go and find it. I suggest you sit and really ask yourself why you want the relationship, what you want out of it, how you plan on voicing what you want, and what do you have to offer to the relationship. That should give you a pretty good idea on how to get out of your slump.
Acting thirsty is a big turn off. You also mentioned that you have trouble expressing your emotions, which can be a major problem in almost any relationship.
13 states (in the USA) have criminal libel laws that are still enforced. Those states are Idaho, Louisiana, Michigan, Minnesota, New Mexico, North Carolina, Oklahoma, Utah, Virginia, Wisconsin, Montana, New Hampshire, and North Dakota.
A lot of countries also have criminalized defamation including Japan and China.
Thanks, I think that’s how I’ll proceed. Recording her would come back to bite me, but walking out of the conversation when it’s unhealthy seems effective. Cheers.
He's using his trauma as an excuse to act like an ass and you're letting him. My mom has always done this and I finally had to just cut her off. Look into the sunk cost fallacy. That may give you a more logical way of looking at letting this relationship go.
He could still be my dad in 15 more years lmao but yes I understand what you're saying. Oddly enough we have a shit ton in common and he's just now establishing his career.
Thank you for your response. It's how he refers to his circumstances (he says situation and circumstances interchangeably and not condition or diagnosis so I use what he uses, but referenced what others may call it for context. And your right on the misspelling… on TikTok there are a series of videos that talked about changing the spelling to “take ownership” of the term (similarly to what Black people did with taking ther 'er off the n‐….word.) I was attempting to connect with those in the community while not offending.
And I can also take car of my daughter and have a relationship (in general).
Have a great day.
If you want something organic, you're going to have to go and find it. I suggest you sit and really ask yourself why you want the relationship, what you want out of it, how you plan on voicing what you want, and what do you have to offer to the relationship. That should give you a pretty good idea on how to get out of your slump.
Acting thirsty is a big turn off. You also mentioned that you have trouble expressing your emotions, which can be a major problem in almost any relationship.
“Just an FYI—defamation is not “illegal”.“
13 states (in the USA) have criminal libel laws that are still enforced. Those states are Idaho, Louisiana, Michigan, Minnesota, New Mexico, North Carolina, Oklahoma, Utah, Virginia, Wisconsin, Montana, New Hampshire, and North Dakota.
A lot of countries also have criminalized defamation including Japan and China.
Thanks, I think that’s how I’ll proceed. Recording her would come back to bite me, but walking out of the conversation when it’s unhealthy seems effective. Cheers.
Your boyfriend walking away was him turning the other cheek. Your father is lucky he never met a rapidly approaching fist.
Why in the world would you even consider meeting up with an abuser? WHY?
Call your therapist.
Do not even respond, block him.
You dont need an apology, or closure. Its over and done. Your therapist needs to know you are looking for excuses to see him again,.
He's using his trauma as an excuse to act like an ass and you're letting him. My mom has always done this and I finally had to just cut her off. Look into the sunk cost fallacy. That may give you a more logical way of looking at letting this relationship go.