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I don’t think this friendship is salvageable, you’re always gonna feel like shit seeing them together. And it’s not really a platonic friendship if you have feelings for him
I went through something similar in my relationship.
a couple things to consider:
•what is his porn consumption like? does he watch a lot of it? if he does, he might be expending his sexual energy on that and having none left over for you, or that he has unrealistic expectations for sex that you (or anyone really) can't meet.
•is he open to therapy? both personal and/or couples? this is a serious issue that could quickly snowball into something much worse, and you need to discern whether or not he's willing and able to commit to counselling to address it. if he isn't, that's very telling about both his conflict resolution skills and about how important the relationship is to him.
•does he know how intensely this is affecting you? why is he reticent to see a doctor? a blood test for testosterone and thyroid stimulating hormone could be illuminating and isn't big or scary to do.
•could he be cheating on you? are you confident he isn't, and that he's heterosexual?
•was there a precipitating event that started this that you can think of?
•is this a pattern in other relationships he's had?
sorry if this isn't helpful – it's a difficult, messy, uncomfortable situation and nearly impossible to navigate gracefully. at the very least I'd recommend investing in a good vibrator for yourself, seeing a counsellor to help your own mental health, being open with him about your needs, and checking out r/deadbedrooms if you need some validation/commiseration. I hope this turns out alright for you.
I’m not on her phone , we’re friends on Snapchat so I see her story there
Yeah I see now she’s edited it in.
Have a more in depth conversation with him. Tell him you want to make sure you are both investing in a future together. Tell him you feel it would be best to have a clearer timeline and let him know what that would ideally look like for you. Make space for what he wants as well.
Couples do what they want. My bf and I are getting married at the end of the year and won't be cohabitating until we're husband and wife. My sister has had multiple long term relationships and for her moving in after 4-6 months is the norm. So, what do you want? What does he want? And how can both of those come together? Good luck!
Fair take. And I agree they should. We can also call out OP for not pushing that issue. I'd just be more along the lines of you didn't, I won't. Want to meet the girl, who are these guys?
Room to change both sides. Her wording makes me think it's less about the concern and more controlling behavior. “Will not be meeting” – nah.
Neither are really doing what needs to be done.
So youte the one assuming it's easy. With mo context? Lol
Ironic.
Is just so unlikely he'd agree to it because he's very private about sex.
Sounds like your gf bought the gift for her, not you.
She is blaming others for her intentional choices.
She has not changed and in fact the manipulation is now more apparent. You seem to see this and yet are being drawn back in.
They all knew and did nothing. They watched as you engaged with Mark and Emily unawares. Bad friends who chose to protect her wrongdoing. You cannot trust them or rely on them. Advances will be coming from a place of guilt and to ‘even a score’. Transactional people are best avoided. The immaturity of the group has been laid bare and you yourself are showing the foundational soap opera drama that seems to be part of everything.
Wake up from this groggy dream. You are still being manipulated. The release of truth is slow and probably has not finished. Marks attachment is very strong for a single kiss and limited encouragement. More happened. He was given the impression, even if only sometimes, that she wanted more than you could give and so his drive to fight to win her was amped over time. Even now she is still reading his letters even if she claims she bins them, and feeding off his desire for her.
Walk away from this drama. The only thing she has learned so far is to use faux misery as a shield against opprobrium. Her true feelings come out when she senses you will break under her pressure.
She is blaming others for her intentional choices.
She has not changed and in fact the manipulation is now more apparent. You seem to see this and yet are being drawn back in.
They all knew and did nothing. They watched as you engaged with Mark and Emily unawares. Bad friends who chose to protect her wrongdoing. You cannot trust them or rely on them. Advances will be coming from a place of guilt and to ‘even a score’. Transactional people are best avoided. The immaturity of the group has been laid bare and you yourself are showing the foundational soap opera drama that seems to be part of everything.
Wake up from this groggy dream. You are still being manipulated. The release of truth is slow and probably has not finished. Marks attachment is very strong for a single kiss and limited encouragement. More happened. He was given the impression, even if only sometimes, that she wanted more than you could give and so his drive to fight to win her was amped over time. Even now she is still reading his letters even if she claims she bins them, and feeding off his desire for her.
Walk away from this drama. The only thing she has learned so far is to use faux misery as a shield against opprobrium. Her true feelings come out when she senses you will break under her pressure.
i agree with everything you’re saying but i still feel like she does care for me, and im not trying to be pitiful but i feel like i am very hot to care for – relatively. and i can’t help but feel like i have some sort of emotional disconnect between everything. i don’t feel a lot but she can make me feel. not always but she can so idk, im gonna play it out it a bit for now i think
Especially as you pass 40! ISTG I just had a birthday, I don’t need anything special, a nice dinner is plenty. OP’s guy is a schmole.
Ok I’ll try. Thank you. I still won’t leave but first step can be stop begging and spamming when he doesn’t reply.