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1. So he blames you for having to go to hospital, despite nearly killing his father.

   Then “because of us” he moved away.

   Then he says “he is ready to move forward” how nice of him to forgive you.

   Then he doesn't respond when you wife offers him to start small and was hurt that your wife has boundaries and trust issues.

   Your wife is with you on not seeing him, but you believe that one day she may want to see him. And you wonder if it unreasonable to have a permanent ban? You also think he may have a mental illness that makes him destroy things and have rage that results in nearly killing someone who also did not report him to the police.

   So using the basic “golden child” dysfunctional family dynamic which your wife grew up in, where the child is forgiven for everything he does and brushed under the carpet. Then your wife has been conditioned to forgive him and has been guilt tripped by her mother as well.

   So well done to her for addressing this in therapy and doing her best to enforce boundaries, that isn't easy at all. I am sure she is getting guilt trips from MIL as well. I hope you had some help to process this as this is clearly something that has affected you as it should.

   You have no evidence that he has addressed his issues, nothing to show as true remorse for what he did, but then he was trained to forget and ignore and move forward so in that respect he is also just following the same pattern he learned.

   I feel that you should not be around him ever, he has shown you what he is capable of and that trauma is going to stick with you. Given this then your wife should not be telling him to start small, but I feel that is because her mother is pressuring her to give in and brush it under the carpet as always. Guilt is a very difficult emotion and her mother is likely a pro at the manipulation.

   If you decide that you will never see him again and that you feel your wife should support you by not seeing him then I understand that position from what you have experienced. She didn't see what you saw and felt but should still support your position. Given what he did to you and her father.

   I personally would reduce the contact with the enabling parents as well.

   I would maybe offer to go to therapy with her to talk about your experience, or having your own therapy but I also know that some people have experiences that they just online with as well. Your wife needs to know what you went through though if she doesn't already. If she ever meets him again it should be in public never in the home that his attack took place in, that is my opinion on that.

   As to a mental illness, I don't know about that. I know Narcissistic rage and how nasty that can get and how people still make excuses and let them get away with it, which is really the issue. How they pretend that everything is normal when clearly it isn't. I won't ever be around that person ever again in my life, nor will several of the family members the rage was directed at. I won't be at any event, marriage or death that person goes to. I won't put myself in that position and neither will my partner who supports me 100% despite it being their direct family.

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2. He was probably recording you, if he asked before and you said yes he probably thinks it’s ok when ever for what ever

   Just talk to him about when and what he has to ask to record you

   This seems like bad communication

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3. I noticed him watching significantly more porn, his Instagram feed is full of very hot women that don't look like me, when we have sex he doesn't make eye contact with me

   I don't wanna ask, but im going to.. are all the girls small petite? And the porn titles are all teen and older men? How old was his ex?

   A few days ago my husband cracked a “joke” about 'what would you do if I got another woman pregnant?”

   A day or two later he joked again about how if he cheated it would be my fault and I said “how the hell would it be MY fault?” and he said “Because you didn't put it down on me enough.”

   I have had a lot of head damage in my life, and in now way shape or form can my dumb self see these as “jokes” these are all gauging questions and he's testing your response.

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   OP, it looks like your husband is trying to pin “lack of intimacy” on you so he can step out on you and he's grooming you to accept it by making it casual topics and gas lighting you.

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   I'm worried about the age thing, not your current age gap, the fact that a grown man 30 something year old dated someone who couldn't legally drink (u.s is 21, but most large countries is 20 I believe), but even if you could drink you weren't established as an individual yet, you just finished primary education and before you can get a degree or decide on opening a business or starting a career… boom! This guys shows up and probably made choices for you. I might be outta pocket, but just be on guard OP

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4. You could have filed assault charges

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5. Don’t crap where you eat. Period, leaving your job is always an option because there is a better one out there, always. In any case, one of you will have to leave this job for the relationship to work and it won’t be him. Keep in mind, if you start a relationship with him either while he is already in one and cheating or right after break up, that’s probably how yours will end too.

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6. YOU want to get engaged. He clearly does not. You have to make your choices from there, but he clearly values buying cars and shit over proposing.

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7. Now I can't say I relate since I've been dumped by every girl I've ever been with, haven't dumped one myself. But, maybe you should call up your friends and have a guys night out. Or get invested into your job if you have one, or invested in your hobbies

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8. Because that is commonly how bacterial infections happen. It’s through new bacteria introduced to the system or a buildup of bad bacteria bc of poor hygiene. It can be other things but most of the time it’s from the area being introduced to an unsanitary environment. It’s nothing to be ashamed about. Some people are so sensitive to it that it’ll happen regardless of hygiene. It really just depends on your body

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