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take people at their word. why would you assume she doesn’t mean it and is speaking out of anger when she’s made it very clear she doesn’t wanna be with you? no means no dude it’s not nude
I'm saying this as a mom, block this guy on everything and run. He is a walking red flag, and his behavior will just get worse. Do you really want to deal with his issues and mind games? You deserve better than someone who lies to and manipulates you, strings you along, and puts you down.
If he’s consistently cheating on you- he was never “really good to you” or “really loved you” with 12 women!! How would you feel if someone did that to your sister or mother? Would you tell me why them to run or maybe he’ll change? You deserve better than you’re allowing yourself to have. Go somewhere far n recreate yourself. Please!
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He been cheating on you and staying with the other woman 4 nights/week.
So he’s creepy for doing this?
Good luck OP! I’m glad you’re doing what fees best for you, and not what your ex is pressuring you to do
why ?
You sound like you need to speak to a therapist. Getting so depressed after an argument that you ignore your responsibilities is not healthy coping, nor is your self-defeating and self-blaming line of thinking. If you can afford it, a therapist can help you discover healthy coping mechanisms that can increase your ability to function in negative situations like this.
That said, is this really a relationship worth salvaging? If every argument ends with you in a messy ball of emotions if a resolution isn't reached immediately, then overall this relationship is unhealthy for you. Consider breaking up if only to protect your own future at this point.
What to do next is end this. You’re not responsible for his mental health. He’s a dangerous and violent . He’s an alcoholic. You can’t save him.
take people at their word. why would you assume she doesn’t mean it and is speaking out of anger when she’s made it very clear she doesn’t wanna be with you? no means no dude it’s not nude
I'm saying this as a mom, block this guy on everything and run. He is a walking red flag, and his behavior will just get worse. Do you really want to deal with his issues and mind games? You deserve better than someone who lies to and manipulates you, strings you along, and puts you down.
Easy and shor answer is : “no”. A more complex and elaborate one would be: “hell the fuck no”.
Yo still need to work in your self respect m8. Kudos for beating anorexia, but there is still work to do if you even fathom to get back with her.
If he’s consistently cheating on you- he was never “really good to you” or “really loved you” with 12 women!! How would you feel if someone did that to your sister or mother? Would you tell me why them to run or maybe he’ll change? You deserve better than you’re allowing yourself to have. Go somewhere far n recreate yourself. Please!