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Date: February 18, 2023
Ya seriously I need to know who this masseuse is. Lmaooo
This is a naked one. A week in a year may seem menial to you, but to share your space with someone you can’t even communicate with for an entire week could be absolutely torturous for someone like your husband who really doesn’t want to share his home with anyone outside of the person he actively chose to online with (you.)
I’m exactly like your husband. It’s hot to truly explain how viscerally I hate sharing my space. Call it selfish, but no matter how much I love that person it feels like an invasion. Maybe not for a singular day, but a week would be pretty brutal.
Yes yes yes
Divorce is a unilateral decision. If he wants a divorce nothing you can do. I understand having mental issues but if you are sleeping until noon you aren’t managing your issues. Sounds like he’s done waiting for you to get yourself regulated. Get done therapy and let this be a wake up for you. Oh and get a lawyer.
The whole point of good communication is that it's not easy, but it's better to work through that than to not talk about your feelings and let it degrade your relationship. It sounds like he didn't let you know he was making this for you – talk to him about it, lead with what you like about the action itself (I appreciate that you try to provide for me etc), let him know you can see why he likes this design and style but it just doesn't mesh well with yours, and give some examples of things that would. If you've never talked about something like before you could reinforce to him he wouldn't know your tastes and this is sharing something new about yourself. Honestly it sounds like a fun couple project to think about something together he could make that would fit in your tastes.
If you don't want anything like this from him period, that's probably an incompatibility as it definitely sounds like gift giving is high in his love languages. At that point you'd have to have a conversation around that, acknowledging he's trying to make you feel loved but you just don't speak that way. Would also be a good time to check in with him about things he needs to feel loved and then see if you can find compromises.
How often did you all have sex?
I would worry about the pressure he’s clearly going to put that (hypothetical) child under. My grandfather was a professor and my mom lived under a fuckin’ microscope re: her education and never felt good enough. Graduated with her BA summa cum laude at 19? Not good enough. She never did a Master’s (huge source of disappointment for her father). She recently confessed that though she loved her father, she was a bit relieved when he died because it meant she didn’t have someone questioning her every choice anymore.
I’m in academia and I’ve learned from those family mistakes. The whole system’s a disaster and if they wanna skip it entirely, I’ll support them. (I really value higher ed, so I hope they don’t skip it, but I will not pull a grandpa and give them such high expectations they always feel like they’re reaching for my love and approval.)
Get her to read How to Be Less Stupid about Race by Crystal Flemming.
I answered above. If I had been aborted I wouldn’t care about being aborted.
You’re asking the same question as “what if you never existed”. Except that abortion is a politically charged tool/piece of healthcare.
So if you’re interested in the thought exercise, then fine! Abortion is no different from our “flavors” or null-existence. Do you agree?
What a fucking manipulative snowflake. You did nothing, absolutely nothing wrong to apologize. Fuck him.
I can see why she skipped to it being an insult, if you look at the post history it doesn't sound like they've had a healthy relationship
The hurting of feelings is one of the biggest reasons I don't snoop outside of simply being respectful of privacy. I am chaos in a meatsuit, and my spouse is a freaking saint to put up with me and my shenanigans. I can only imagine what his venting sessions about me look like.