Sexual things aside, you've been together 4 years. And youre both adults in your mid 20s. By this point you should definitely know if she's someone you want to marry or not. If you want to marry her, propose. If you don't, leave.
Yes, it is naive. If’s it’s not this thing (travelling for work), it’ll be something else. Then something else. They’re called red flags for a reason. They warn you of things to come if you ignore them.
Thank you both! I will think about it a bit more…and i will change my approach a bit. He is off for 3 or 4 days next week and he never mentioned anything about wanting to see me in that time. I think i'll leave it to him to suggest making a plan.
Or OP could realize that her friends are trying to drive a wedge between her and her boyfriend. Take a look at her post history, one of her friends from this same group called her boyfriend “possessive” because he urged her not to do cocaine while her friends did. Her friends absolutely have bad judgement and will absolutely encourage her to cheat on her boyfriend.
I think it just autocorrected “last”
Not at all. I would just appreciate her using it occasionally when we play together
There are plenty of men out there who actually LIKE the idea of that.
Does he normally woo you or say it first?
What was last year like?
Year before?
Year before that?
You said yourself you've just settled for him. Why? … You need to be forever miserable because of some fluffy feelings…. oh come on girl.
Why have you lowered your standards and why do you expect things to change after 5 years? You know your choices here.
Sexual things aside, you've been together 4 years. And youre both adults in your mid 20s. By this point you should definitely know if she's someone you want to marry or not. If you want to marry her, propose. If you don't, leave.
I think Reddit is the worst place to get relationship advice.
You don't need proof to leave a relationship.
Don't waste any more time in a relationship where there's no trust.
Yes, it is naive. If’s it’s not this thing (travelling for work), it’ll be something else. Then something else. They’re called red flags for a reason. They warn you of things to come if you ignore them.
Thank you both! I will think about it a bit more…and i will change my approach a bit. He is off for 3 or 4 days next week and he never mentioned anything about wanting to see me in that time. I think i'll leave it to him to suggest making a plan.
Unfortunately we do. A story age old.
Or OP could realize that her friends are trying to drive a wedge between her and her boyfriend. Take a look at her post history, one of her friends from this same group called her boyfriend “possessive” because he urged her not to do cocaine while her friends did. Her friends absolutely have bad judgement and will absolutely encourage her to cheat on her boyfriend.