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You can try to understand him. I'm kind of a socialist, but i also recognize no views are objectively right or wrong.
You can try to pretend he has a point and ask him open-ended questions about his views, like curiously, not judgmentally, to find the reason he believes this. He might surprize you and be more clear-headed and less rigid than you thought, and you can have your separate views with understanding and you won't be repulsed. If he turns out to have a huge ego and get defensive or even aggressive, then you have some new information about this guy that you have to take into account.
Or, if this is a total repulsing deal breaker, just break the deal now.
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Seems like he is getting the benefits without any responsibility.
But if you really want him back you do have to have the conversation at some point. Either he wants to or he dosent. And either answer will allow you to move on
Based on what you wrote, it seems you guys have a lot of issues for only being together for 4 months. First off, if you re getting all this information about people talking bad about you from your bf, then he is being completely inconsiderate and rude. What good is it for him to tell you people are talking bad about you? All it does is make you feel bad and cause discourse between you and his friends. Secondly, my big concern would be whether he's sticking up for you. What does he do when people are talking bad about you? How does he respond? Does he tell them to stop disrespecting you or does he join in? If he joins in, then he respects you as little as they do, which is a huge issue.
Just a thought-How have you behaved towards his friends since you guys started seeing each other? Did you write them off as soon as you heard they were talking bad about you? I believe you turning and walking away as soon as you see them does nothing to help you or the situation. They are his friends, like it or not, and you're new to the group. It's important you get to know them from the beginning. That being said, though, I don't blame you for not wanting to hang out with people who treat you so poorly. Now, if you haven't really given the time of day from the beginning, then how do they know enough information about you to have such a low opinion? Sad to say, but if that's the case, then it's your bf talking badly about you that formed their opinions. That's another point to ponder.
Just because you're okay with your bf hanging out with some other girl doesn't mean you don't have controlling behaviors. There's a fine balance between setting boundaries and trying to control the situation. It takes time to learn the difference. Telling him not to hang out with people is controlling. Telling him you won't tolerate being disrespected is a boundary. (Btw, him telling you this girl wants him yet continuing to hang out with her is kind of rude. I mean, why would he tell you that information about her and still hang out with her?)
It doesn't sounds like you guys have a very healthy relationship. Not everyone you date is going to be a good match for you. If he made a promise to you, then he should have kept it unless there was an unexpected emergency, such as an illness or other serious situation. It just doesn't sound like he values you or respects you, and sadly, that's most likely not going to change no matter what you do or how hard you try. You can't change people, but you can change your circumstance.
Why was I not surprised when I read that his family is Muslim? I suppose there are bigoted reactionaries in every faith, but people need to not be surprised when the family doesn't support an interfaith relationship. Of course they don't respect you – to them, you are just a piece of ass your BF is learning his manhood from, to be discarded when they find a suitable wife for him.
If I were you, I'd walk away. He may be the sweetest guy ever, but this is bigger than the two of you.
No, he was very tidy but that was when he had like.. 2 40K armies and not 7. He was always a mini hobbyist but I don't recall him having a bunch of unopened gaming boxes everywhere.
You can try to understand him. I'm kind of a socialist, but i also recognize no views are objectively right or wrong.
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Or, if this is a total repulsing deal breaker, just break the deal now.
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Seems like he is getting the benefits without any responsibility.
But if you really want him back you do have to have the conversation at some point. Either he wants to or he dosent. And either answer will allow you to move on
Sure you did. ?
Based on what you wrote, it seems you guys have a lot of issues for only being together for 4 months. First off, if you re getting all this information about people talking bad about you from your bf, then he is being completely inconsiderate and rude. What good is it for him to tell you people are talking bad about you? All it does is make you feel bad and cause discourse between you and his friends. Secondly, my big concern would be whether he's sticking up for you. What does he do when people are talking bad about you? How does he respond? Does he tell them to stop disrespecting you or does he join in? If he joins in, then he respects you as little as they do, which is a huge issue.
Just a thought-How have you behaved towards his friends since you guys started seeing each other? Did you write them off as soon as you heard they were talking bad about you? I believe you turning and walking away as soon as you see them does nothing to help you or the situation. They are his friends, like it or not, and you're new to the group. It's important you get to know them from the beginning. That being said, though, I don't blame you for not wanting to hang out with people who treat you so poorly. Now, if you haven't really given the time of day from the beginning, then how do they know enough information about you to have such a low opinion? Sad to say, but if that's the case, then it's your bf talking badly about you that formed their opinions. That's another point to ponder.
Just because you're okay with your bf hanging out with some other girl doesn't mean you don't have controlling behaviors. There's a fine balance between setting boundaries and trying to control the situation. It takes time to learn the difference. Telling him not to hang out with people is controlling. Telling him you won't tolerate being disrespected is a boundary. (Btw, him telling you this girl wants him yet continuing to hang out with her is kind of rude. I mean, why would he tell you that information about her and still hang out with her?)
It doesn't sounds like you guys have a very healthy relationship. Not everyone you date is going to be a good match for you. If he made a promise to you, then he should have kept it unless there was an unexpected emergency, such as an illness or other serious situation. It just doesn't sound like he values you or respects you, and sadly, that's most likely not going to change no matter what you do or how hard you try. You can't change people, but you can change your circumstance.
Why was I not surprised when I read that his family is Muslim? I suppose there are bigoted reactionaries in every faith, but people need to not be surprised when the family doesn't support an interfaith relationship. Of course they don't respect you – to them, you are just a piece of ass your BF is learning his manhood from, to be discarded when they find a suitable wife for him.
If I were you, I'd walk away. He may be the sweetest guy ever, but this is bigger than the two of you.
No, he was very tidy but that was when he had like.. 2 40K armies and not 7. He was always a mini hobbyist but I don't recall him having a bunch of unopened gaming boxes everywhere.
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The details don't matter here. You've not had sex in about 4 years. Your relationship is already over, it's been over for years.
Walk away, the relationship is done. You're too young to live! like this.
Trust me I've ripped into it her about it. It'll set her straight for a while but she quickly regresses.
How does ADHD prevent her from cleaning the house lmao it’s ridiculous