Ok…I don't think either one of you is good for the other. He couldn't be bothered to make you a priority, you are using him to pay your bills, you are “too weak” to stay loyal, he's lying to you about buying a house to be together. Good grief. You're either a match made in heaven or you need to get your head out of the sand and break up with him.
Man do it all the time. Their wives having heath issues (like a pregnancy or so) and gain weight and the man leave them for it. Your man seems to have depression, so you leave him. Nothing new in this cold world. No one should trust anyone to be there when getting sick.
I am a woman and one of my female friends also calls me “my love” (it’s also my husband’s nickname for me as well!). So it is definitely not beyond the pale for platonic friendship terms of endearment.
I don’t think trying once a week is pushy, and from his description it sounds like his wife is interested too. You're right that 9 weeks isn't much time to heal from childbirth, but literally every comment is demonizing this guy for asking for an explanation about why it might be the way it is. I don't get it.
We were already suppose to go on a little study date but then I wanted to clear the air and ask how he really feels about me because he’ll say things like he wishes we could be together but then say other things like he’s not in the right mindset to be consistent with me right now.
Look just because you can't extend your concern beyond yourself doesn't mean everyone else can't
That is highly plausible. Some kids do grow up to think similar to their parents. No clue honestly
$3 for soy sauce?
This feels very ungracious and miserly. Did this start happening after her parents stopped paying rent?
I wouldn't treat my friends this way as it I think it is very rude.
Yeah mate will you expect an apology after he fucken KILLS YOU? Like girl, grow some sense, or at least some will to online.
'My husband drove off the road and made me paralysed, but he's such a nice person, how can I make him apologise?' –> see how stupid that sounds?
wake the f up.
Ok…I don't think either one of you is good for the other. He couldn't be bothered to make you a priority, you are using him to pay your bills, you are “too weak” to stay loyal, he's lying to you about buying a house to be together. Good grief. You're either a match made in heaven or you need to get your head out of the sand and break up with him.
Man do it all the time. Their wives having heath issues (like a pregnancy or so) and gain weight and the man leave them for it. Your man seems to have depression, so you leave him. Nothing new in this cold world. No one should trust anyone to be there when getting sick.
I’m so exhausted and I don’t know what to do anymore
This is an easy one. Walk. Away.
I am a woman and one of my female friends also calls me “my love” (it’s also my husband’s nickname for me as well!). So it is definitely not beyond the pale for platonic friendship terms of endearment.
I don’t think trying once a week is pushy, and from his description it sounds like his wife is interested too. You're right that 9 weeks isn't much time to heal from childbirth, but literally every comment is demonizing this guy for asking for an explanation about why it might be the way it is. I don't get it.
Break up with that idiot.
I dunno, I have not once in my life removed a contact from my phonebook. Unless I discover that the number was disconnected.
Someone I don't want to talk to? I don't respond. It'll trickle out soon enough.
No your just being a bigot is what your being not a dick
We were already suppose to go on a little study date but then I wanted to clear the air and ask how he really feels about me because he’ll say things like he wishes we could be together but then say other things like he’s not in the right mindset to be consistent with me right now.