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She embarrassed herself by saying “I’ll go talk to him.” That just makes it even more awkward. You’re leaving your guest to berate your husband and your guest obviously knows that. She didn’t “have to” follow him at all.
Marc sounds like a toxic asshole and I'm surprised you're putting up with it.
1 – Your dad did something really nice for you, and it's not like he doesn't know what he's doing. He's a literal mechanic and fixed your tire and saved you probably a lot of money. Marc got pissed and it sounds like it's just because he doesn't like your dad and made you take your car to the shop regardless (which, if your bf is a mechanic wouldn't he want to save you money too and fix it himself if possible? If your dad could do it without a shop I'm sure your bf could?) yikes.
2 – Your dad calls Marc out on his toxic behavior, Marc freaks out and tells you to cut your dad off. I get that his feelings are hurt and his toes got stepped on but HE wasn't helping you with your car and your dad did. He can't be pissed that your dad helped you when he seemingly wasn't? And it WAS rude of him to freak out over your dad's work when that's literally HIS JOB. It's Marc's job too but come on.
3 – Marc CONTINUES behind your back and tries to ruin your tentative relationship with your dad. Yes, your dad did bad things but it's not Marc's decision whether or not you keep him in your life. But threatening your dad “you're lucky she keeps you in her life” is just a bad look.
4 – Marc then says he needs your “support” BUT HE'S THE ONE BEING A TOXIC JERK??? Your dad helped you. Marc wasn't helping you. Marc judged your dad, ended up costing you money possibly to go to a shop, badmouthed your dad, threatened him with his relationship with you, all because your dad told him not to judge his work. I understand if your dad really did fuck up your tire even more but it sounds like he was trying to do a nice thing and marc just blew up because he doesn't like your dad.
5 – Marc doesn't even like who you are as a person. He calls you a “kiddult” (rude much???), criticizes the things you like, expects you to always have something to talk about but then criticizes you for talking about what you want to talk about. He will yell at you because you don't pick up on things quickly. None of these traits are the traits of a good partner.
These are the traits of an abuser. He's isolating you from your family, he berates you, he doesn't care to care about what you like but expects you to like everything about him I'm guessing, he calls you names and belittles you.
Explain to me again why you want to stay minus the fact that it's just the sunk cost fallacy speaking and you feel like you have to because its been 2 years?
that’s a legal issue i’m not about to go into right now. i doubt OP paid her daughter back for any improvements she did to the house. is OP renting or does she own? i wasn’t too sure about that when reading the post…
however, the daughter’s reaction overall (room re-remodeling notwithstanding) is understandable – the daughter is paying for household expenses and rent to have her room which was taken from her without her consent and she was pressed into being an unpaid chauffeur and pressured to give up her car.
She embarrassed herself by saying “I’ll go talk to him.” That just makes it even more awkward. You’re leaving your guest to berate your husband and your guest obviously knows that. She didn’t “have to” follow him at all.
Time to move on. Block him as well.
Marc sounds like a toxic asshole and I'm surprised you're putting up with it.
1 – Your dad did something really nice for you, and it's not like he doesn't know what he's doing. He's a literal mechanic and fixed your tire and saved you probably a lot of money. Marc got pissed and it sounds like it's just because he doesn't like your dad and made you take your car to the shop regardless (which, if your bf is a mechanic wouldn't he want to save you money too and fix it himself if possible? If your dad could do it without a shop I'm sure your bf could?) yikes.
2 – Your dad calls Marc out on his toxic behavior, Marc freaks out and tells you to cut your dad off. I get that his feelings are hurt and his toes got stepped on but HE wasn't helping you with your car and your dad did. He can't be pissed that your dad helped you when he seemingly wasn't? And it WAS rude of him to freak out over your dad's work when that's literally HIS JOB. It's Marc's job too but come on.
3 – Marc CONTINUES behind your back and tries to ruin your tentative relationship with your dad. Yes, your dad did bad things but it's not Marc's decision whether or not you keep him in your life. But threatening your dad “you're lucky she keeps you in her life” is just a bad look.
4 – Marc then says he needs your “support” BUT HE'S THE ONE BEING A TOXIC JERK??? Your dad helped you. Marc wasn't helping you. Marc judged your dad, ended up costing you money possibly to go to a shop, badmouthed your dad, threatened him with his relationship with you, all because your dad told him not to judge his work. I understand if your dad really did fuck up your tire even more but it sounds like he was trying to do a nice thing and marc just blew up because he doesn't like your dad.
5 – Marc doesn't even like who you are as a person. He calls you a “kiddult” (rude much???), criticizes the things you like, expects you to always have something to talk about but then criticizes you for talking about what you want to talk about. He will yell at you because you don't pick up on things quickly. None of these traits are the traits of a good partner.
These are the traits of an abuser. He's isolating you from your family, he berates you, he doesn't care to care about what you like but expects you to like everything about him I'm guessing, he calls you names and belittles you.
Explain to me again why you want to stay minus the fact that it's just the sunk cost fallacy speaking and you feel like you have to because its been 2 years?
This!! Had the same experience, on top of that my ex was abusive so all I felt was disgust and I was angry all the time.
We broke up and poof – anxiety gone. My bad mood was gone. I am happy again. He was nothing special.
that’s a legal issue i’m not about to go into right now. i doubt OP paid her daughter back for any improvements she did to the house. is OP renting or does she own? i wasn’t too sure about that when reading the post…
however, the daughter’s reaction overall (room re-remodeling notwithstanding) is understandable – the daughter is paying for household expenses and rent to have her room which was taken from her without her consent and she was pressed into being an unpaid chauffeur and pressured to give up her car.