My fiance has multiple close friends who are women, most of whom I have become close with, and we are all happy existing simultaneously because we are grown ass adults and are not threatened by each other whatsoever. We are confident in the strength of our relationship, something that you clearly are not. How do you not see it?
Whatever catches your attention.
It's YOUR attention. Why let anyone else influence it?
Ok wel let him worry about it bro
Who cares. I like that he doesn’t have baggage.
It doesn't really sound like this is the guy for you. You can't just find someone nice, and then invent compatibility.
My fiance has multiple close friends who are women, most of whom I have become close with, and we are all happy existing simultaneously because we are grown ass adults and are not threatened by each other whatsoever. We are confident in the strength of our relationship, something that you clearly are not. How do you not see it?
You say you didn’t want to “blindside” him yet that’s EXACTLY what you did.
He told you his situation and you chose to dismiss it as being nothing and to act like you know better.
He feels betrayed by you, and quite rightly so.
Good luck mending things with him. He’s going to find it naked trusting you about any of his private stuff again.