0 views
Ms n Mr Yara, 19 y.o.
Location:
Room subject:
To Start live video press there
On-line Live Sex Chat rooms Ms n Mr Yara
Date: October 17, 2022
![](/cs/camsoda2500.jpg")
PussyCharms
Promo Code
200_FREE_TOKEN_SPRING_SURPRISE
Take your meds. Your bf is being very rude. That’s a small change in weight and even if it weren’t your mental health is also your health. I gained over 30 lbs on antidepressants. Eventually switched to different ones for other reasons, but find what works for you and ignore your bf.
Hello /u/Ben_Solo-Jedi,
Your post was removed for the following reason(s):
Your title did not include at least two ages/genders or was not formatted correctly
Posts must:
include details about the involved parties including ages, genders, and length of relationship, and
request advice in real situations involving two or more people
We are enforcing the two rules listed above by making all titles use the following formatting:
[##X][##X], [## X][## X], or [##-X][##-X] where ## is the age and X is the gender (currently M, F, T, A, NB, FTM, MTF but more can be added). You can have more than two ages/genders listed, but you must have at least two. Here is an example:
[34NB][88-F] We are two people in an example post
Please resubmit with a corrected title.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
And why is the family getting roped in? The coward could pick up a phone and apologize at any time if he was sincere about mending the relationship.
As difficult as it is, this may be a dealbreaker. If you won't move and he won't stay, there's not much you can do, except try a long-term relationship for a while and maybe make a plan to move somewhere that works better for both of you in the future? But I wouldn't be doing that for or with someone who just sprang this on me and won't talk about it.
I would try and talk to him again and find out why he's so dead set about moving, to that place, now. If he's been trying to get out of there for years, how has this not come up before? There must be something underlying that. Maybe there is a way you can reach a compromise, but not if you don't have all the facts. That's totally unfair.
I can't tell you what to do, but I would absolutely not move just because he insists (can you advertise for roommates, or move in with other people so you don't have to leave the city you love? That might not be ideal, but sounds better than going somewhere you're going to be absolutely miserable) especially not without a decent explanation.
It's pretty simple actually. [F] = empathize with. [M] = find out some way that they're in the wrong.
What he's actually saying is he longer wants to be monogamous. Saying you're polyamorous doesn't magically abrogate his commitment, it just means he doesn't want to do that with you anymore. If that's not acceptable to you, you need to call it a deal breaker. This isn't throwing away 5 years, if they were good, they will always be good – it's just saying this is a closed chapter in your life and you'd be moving on to the next.
Regardless of this situation, you need to get out make a life for yourself. One issue that might be at play here is it must be a huge weight on him having to be in the role of your one and only everything. You need to talk out why he wants to do this. Him identifying as polyamorous is not a whole answer.
There's always going to be a reason dude. Plus like heartbreaks suck, so if she's already dealing with shit, this is something else on her plate but at least youve washed your hands clean of her.
I don't think it's the length of time but the sleepovers.
Hmm
I don’t really like to be woken up by people I didn’t expect crawling into my bed. My room is “my space” and used to be my safe haven when I got out of an abusive relationship. I’ve worked nude in therapy and was intentionally single a number of years until I met my fiancé. It’s been a little naked making my space into “our space” now. But I think I’ve come a long way. Maybe I’m more sensitive about it bc of that. But my kids always knock and that’s the kind of privacy I expect in our bedroom. And I also expect my fiancé to respect that.