Why does him only having 400 a month be a problem but you having no money because you are funding him, isn’t a problem? You are over investing in this relationship financially at your own detriment.
It’s okay if he’s too stressed. It means he needs to make life changes. Instead you are the crutch.
It’s really unwise doing it this way. In the event this relationship ends. (Which is possible). You lose a lot of money. Written down won’t amount to much.
My dad had a heart attack, my cousin had brain cancer, my niece was sick, i was having problems at work, he was smothering me when i asked for some space and getting insecure and i couldn’t handle it. I recoiled into myself and i regret it so incredibly much now
Wow, thats got to feel like the worst violation from her. First of all, go get tested for STIs in case you ever unknowingly used anything after she'd already used it. Second, if you plan to keep your current toys (or get new ones) also get a lock box you can keep them in to help keep yourself safe since you can clearly no longer trust your sister.
No. He needs to pay for it all.
Why does him only having 400 a month be a problem but you having no money because you are funding him, isn’t a problem? You are over investing in this relationship financially at your own detriment.
It’s okay if he’s too stressed. It means he needs to make life changes. Instead you are the crutch.
It’s really unwise doing it this way. In the event this relationship ends. (Which is possible). You lose a lot of money. Written down won’t amount to much.
My dad had a heart attack, my cousin had brain cancer, my niece was sick, i was having problems at work, he was smothering me when i asked for some space and getting insecure and i couldn’t handle it. I recoiled into myself and i regret it so incredibly much now
Wow, thats got to feel like the worst violation from her. First of all, go get tested for STIs in case you ever unknowingly used anything after she'd already used it. Second, if you plan to keep your current toys (or get new ones) also get a lock box you can keep them in to help keep yourself safe since you can clearly no longer trust your sister.