I never expect my guests to clean my house. Clean up after themselves? Yes. But clean up after others? No. That is part of being a “guest”. I would say, “hey girl! We love having you visit but all I ask is that you pick up your mess after yourself. To make things easier on everyone, we all rinse our dishes after eating and the trash can is insert location here for any snack wrappers or uneaten food. Thank you.”
What sort of psycho post is this. Are you a stalker who eventually got with the person they were creeping on?
I wouldn’t be able to trust him after that I would have to break it off
I never expect my guests to clean my house. Clean up after themselves? Yes. But clean up after others? No. That is part of being a “guest”. I would say, “hey girl! We love having you visit but all I ask is that you pick up your mess after yourself. To make things easier on everyone, we all rinse our dishes after eating and the trash can is insert location here for any snack wrappers or uneaten food. Thank you.”
Been there, end of the day do you!