How are you going to handle the divorce? You are telling your wife that you don't care about her and you don't even have any respect for her! Unbelievable that you care more about your friend than your wife. If I were you I would have my bags packed up and ready to leave because you will need a place to stay when she throws your ass out. But hey, go stay with the friend that kissed you and disrespected your wife and marriage! You two are disrespectful AH'S that deserve each other. Kiss your marriage goodbye and happy divorce day!!
I agree with many comments here, something isn't adding up with this story. Seems like a chunk of information isn't here and it is pretty confusing. I can't really make a full comment about it.
With that said I can mostly comment on this: If the son doesn't want contact and you have been trying to reach out, he shouldn't be angry or upset he missed the family picture. Yes, he is your son and seems to be in a place of hurt, but if he doesn't answer or want to talk, why come now and be angry that he was left out? He wanted to go with no contact.
I’ve actually had two men in my life that died and I notice for a few years until I process everything they become Saints. I even still talk about my husband like that. He was nowhere near perfect but the minute they die they become Saints for a while. We only see the best. We understand the words and we love them anyway.
I would sit down, but I’m a drink somewhere and just talk to him about it
There is no morally right or wrong answer. It is all about how you feel.
I can't tell what you want to do. I would suggest whatever it is do that. This internet stranger holds grudges so I would just ignore her text. I am not interested in people who turn on me like that, particularly when you were doing her a solid by renouncing your claim
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Does you boyfriend have a functioning heart?
100% this. 50/50 is fair.
How are you going to handle the divorce? You are telling your wife that you don't care about her and you don't even have any respect for her! Unbelievable that you care more about your friend than your wife. If I were you I would have my bags packed up and ready to leave because you will need a place to stay when she throws your ass out. But hey, go stay with the friend that kissed you and disrespected your wife and marriage! You two are disrespectful AH'S that deserve each other. Kiss your marriage goodbye and happy divorce day!!
I agree with many comments here, something isn't adding up with this story. Seems like a chunk of information isn't here and it is pretty confusing. I can't really make a full comment about it.
With that said I can mostly comment on this: If the son doesn't want contact and you have been trying to reach out, he shouldn't be angry or upset he missed the family picture. Yes, he is your son and seems to be in a place of hurt, but if he doesn't answer or want to talk, why come now and be angry that he was left out? He wanted to go with no contact.
I’ve actually had two men in my life that died and I notice for a few years until I process everything they become Saints. I even still talk about my husband like that. He was nowhere near perfect but the minute they die they become Saints for a while. We only see the best. We understand the words and we love them anyway.
I would sit down, but I’m a drink somewhere and just talk to him about it
There is no morally right or wrong answer. It is all about how you feel.
I can't tell what you want to do. I would suggest whatever it is do that. This internet stranger holds grudges so I would just ignore her text. I am not interested in people who turn on me like that, particularly when you were doing her a solid by renouncing your claim
Does she have any wish lists? Could you get her to make one?
You clearly aren’t compatible, leave him or he will eventually leave you.