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Date: October 24, 2022
Honestly I would get all your flat mates together and make a formal complaint. If that doesn’t work, the next step is to grab a speaker and wake this dude up every hour he’s asleep until he cracks and understands how fucking awful of a person he is for this shit. People like him only care when it’s happening to them, so give him a dose of his own medicine.
I don’t normally condone retaliation, but this dude is belligerent as fuck.
That's not what love bombing is….
Only way to do it without getting resentful and ruining your relationship anyway.
You need to fight for your marriage. Instead of fighting to “win.” You both need to fight through it together. It sounds like there’s a lot he hasn’t communicated with you and it’s led to a massive buildup of resentment.
Tbh, asking about Christmas with your family while he’s in the middle of a breakdown was pretty tactless. Wtf were you thinking?
I see what you’re saying but I think that’s one interpretation. My interpretation is that they chose to move in together, and the custody situation changes. I would probably also cry if my SO of 4 years suggested I move out. Not every display of emotion is emotional manipulation.
My wife has the same issue. Not sure what it is about it but she's has told me multiple times not to bust in her mouth. It's not that very hot of a request. I've done it once by accident. Finding a girl who likes giving head is hard, why ruin it by disrespecting that boundary
Just generally being awake a lot longer than me bc he was watching shows, getting out of bed, coming back with food, and I know he tries to be quiet but he’s not lol
What can you really do though? You cN’t choose not to resent him, with what you’ve gone through it’s only inevitable that you should have resentment towards him. But that’s ok, you can move on. Wish you the best op
I'm a lesbian and if someone was a trans woman and all the sudden told me or showed me they had a dick I'd nope the fuck out.
Are you not interested in women or are you not interested in sex? They're different things.
If you're not interested in women, then quit dating a woman. Be her friend, not her boyfriend, and let her find someone else.
If you're not interested in sex, at all ever, and you've just been tolerating it for her, then it's time to have a serious conversation about what that means for you two. Is she allowed to have sex outside the relationship? Can you please her without having to fully “partake” in PIV sex?
you could always phrase it to be something that isn’t about smell/taste. You could say that you were fine with her being trimmed, but when she lets it go longer you don’t like the feeling of hair in your mouth. I mean, who does? That way you aren’t making her feel like there’s something wrong with her, it’s just a preference you have.
Also be sure to compliment her extra rn since she’s having body image issues 🙂
The NRE is over now and the novelty of “husband and wife” wore off. Do you not want to be her bestie? You are taking titles way too seriously.
Should i tell her about what's happened already
Let them end. This is not a man who cares about or respects you and clearly he is primarily interested in you for sex.
Even after I was no longer a virgin I still waited about six months to a year before having PIV sex. I did this because I wanted to make sure that I would be ok potentially raising a child with this person if I were to get pregnant. It also had the positive effect of weeding out men like your boyfriend who are pretending to want a committed relationship when actually they just want to hookup and aren’t able to easily access that.
Breathe.
You are only two months in.
Your 12-hour turn around window for a reply isn’t so bad as you texted him before going to bed. For all you know he didn’t see your message until the next day.
The key thing here is that you are both communicating with one another.
He’s 26 and has just gotten out of an 8-year relationship. So he was in a relationship since he was a baby adult at 18. Yet, he’s slept with 40 guys? That does sound a bit odd. I’m assuming that they had an open relationship.
My decision to continue would be based on if they had an open relationship or if he was a cheater.
Obviously if he was a cheater, he’s should be written off as a possible partner.
I’m also curious about the age gap between him and his ex. What was traumatic about the relationship? All rhetorical questions for you to think about. From the subtext of your post, I get the vibe that there was some type of power dyanamic going on. Also, that the break-up was recent. I also suspect something wasn’t copacetic regarding his promiscuity.
All his actions seem as if though he is on the level with you. You Faced Time while he was on vacation, he listened well enough to you to buy presents that are specific to your personality, he hasn’t pressured you to have sex until you are ready, his call to you for support during his cat’s illness, shows that he is in tune with you as an individual.
I would give him the benefit of the doubt that he truly does need you to go slowly. Prior to you mentioning that he had past relationship trauma, I suspected so.
As you both are hitting mutual busy periods, this helps with the taking it slow bit.
If I were in your shoes, I would continue. You know that he isn’t with you to hit it and quit it as he is perfectly fine waiting to have sex until you are ready. After your concern about posting the pic, he didn’t blow you off but was able to express where his head and heart is at given his recent break up. He wasn’t angry but set up his own boundaries.
So his reaction pretty much has shown me that he can communicate well. He didn’t ghost, have a tantrum, give you silent treatment.
He’s basically shown that he’s willing to build a solid foundation to build.
As it is only two months in this is a good start, further time will show you if it is just talk. Actions accompanied with talk will verify his truthfulness.
So breathe and keep dating.