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You barely know each other, the long distance part doesnt count.
But … bunch of studies show that if you want a healthy relationship than its a good idea to start it early and with a relatively low dick count.
So if everything is good (common goals, great sexlife, near zero drama/arguments etc) and you live together for a couple of months than its not a bad idea considering marriage.
Yes you are 20 but ask any woman over 30 … they would kill for a guy who is willing to marry them. Your 20s will be gone sooner than you think.
I'm not saying you did the wrong thing or anything but, it sounds like there was all kinds of bad communication hangups in hear on both ends.
Like you were feeling overwhelmed by the situation and wanted some time without her. I think that's reasonable – I'm not certain I think the concept of pre-scheduling weekends alone is as reasonable in real life as it sounds on paper. Like a weekend of alone time (on paper) sounds totally fine – and is. But, if what you communicate to someone is, “I find you and your child overwhelming I need some regular vacation time for me,” well then they'd understandably find that upsetting. And, while therapy is super popular on Reddit an in major coastal cities, and certainly has some practical benefits it's not actually a one size fits all solution like people act like it is. And not everyone wants to introduce another person (therapist or otherwise) to their relationship decision making. People will hate that fact, but it's true. Introducing a 3rd party to relationship communication or to personal turmoil could help – or it could cause additional resentment.
Also, you don't get why she was confused and offended by your weird behaviour when you picked up your stuff. You just dumped her, you spent the whole day before asking her to talk to you (texting and calling her) and then when she reaches out you stone wall her. I mean… if this is indicative of your communication problems in a relationship then you have a lot of introspection to do too.
This may or may not have been the right relationship for you. But, I think you alluded at major communications breakdowns that you bear more responsibility for then you are probably considering. So keep that in mind in the future.
“Down for some fun later- Erm, it rather sounds like you spent all of about 2minutes checking up on her before basicallt asking her if she wanted to have sex?? Yeah, if I had a big argument with someone enough to warrant taking time out and that's how they treated me afterwards, I'd be rethinking my life choices too.
You barely know each other, the long distance part doesnt count.
But … bunch of studies show that if you want a healthy relationship than its a good idea to start it early and with a relatively low dick count.
So if everything is good (common goals, great sexlife, near zero drama/arguments etc) and you live together for a couple of months than its not a bad idea considering marriage.
Yes you are 20 but ask any woman over 30 … they would kill for a guy who is willing to marry them. Your 20s will be gone sooner than you think.
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Its very black and white here.
You cant lead someone on knowing your life goals and aspirations don’t line even remotely up with theirs.
Moderators, can you make the comments stop being blocked? I’d like to see what everyone is saying.
I'm not saying you did the wrong thing or anything but, it sounds like there was all kinds of bad communication hangups in hear on both ends.
Like you were feeling overwhelmed by the situation and wanted some time without her. I think that's reasonable – I'm not certain I think the concept of pre-scheduling weekends alone is as reasonable in real life as it sounds on paper. Like a weekend of alone time (on paper) sounds totally fine – and is. But, if what you communicate to someone is, “I find you and your child overwhelming I need some regular vacation time for me,” well then they'd understandably find that upsetting. And, while therapy is super popular on Reddit an in major coastal cities, and certainly has some practical benefits it's not actually a one size fits all solution like people act like it is. And not everyone wants to introduce another person (therapist or otherwise) to their relationship decision making. People will hate that fact, but it's true. Introducing a 3rd party to relationship communication or to personal turmoil could help – or it could cause additional resentment.
Also, you don't get why she was confused and offended by your weird behaviour when you picked up your stuff. You just dumped her, you spent the whole day before asking her to talk to you (texting and calling her) and then when she reaches out you stone wall her. I mean… if this is indicative of your communication problems in a relationship then you have a lot of introspection to do too.
This may or may not have been the right relationship for you. But, I think you alluded at major communications breakdowns that you bear more responsibility for then you are probably considering. So keep that in mind in the future.
“Down for some fun later- Erm, it rather sounds like you spent all of about 2minutes checking up on her before basicallt asking her if she wanted to have sex?? Yeah, if I had a big argument with someone enough to warrant taking time out and that's how they treated me afterwards, I'd be rethinking my life choices too.