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“For any future relationships.” Thankfully not everyone is hyper insecure so hopefully he doesn’t have to learn any lesson from this besides the fact some people are just insecure and are stalkers.
Is your husband a person who is conscious of other peoples perceptions? Do you think he was saying out loud what he thinks his friends are thinking about your weight gain?
Sometimes it's not that people are saying what they truly believe, but voicing what they perceive to be other peoples opinions. Its a form of people pleasing. Is that in line with your husbands personality?
No he can't realize anything when his ego is hurt! He can't open his mind!
You shouldn't waste your time trying to teach him normal human behaviour .. he's not stupid but very manipulative! Also a liar! Selfish Abusive Controlling
He can't be wrong..
This is how he thinks:
That didn't happen. And if it did, it wasn't that bad. And if it was, that's not a big deal. And if it is, that's not my fault. And if it was, I didn't mean it. And if I did, you deserved it.
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i wanted to write because this has been on my mind.
my boyfriend has done every drug you could think of. he doesn’t do anything but smoke weed with me now. he has told me about them and his experiences with them. i have expressed to him that i’d like to try certain ones (cocaine mostly, everything else is kind of scary to me) since all i’ve done is weed and mushrooms. he tells me it’s not worth it because i have pretty bad anxiety and depression and he’s worried about how they’ll affect me afterwards since they can mess you up.
i was telling my friends about this in conversation and my one friend (25M) was trying to tell me he is controlling me. i tried to tell my friend that i believe he just cares about me and doesn’t want me to get hurt! i don’t think it’s unreasonable for him to ask me not to do naked drugs.
i honestly don’t even have a huge desire to try them now that i’m out of college because the effects do scare me a little and id probably only do them in a controlled setting with people i trust if i did. i personally don’t think doing any drugs is worth jeopardizing my relationship in any way.
That's the dumbest thing I've ever heard. Please don't date people. If it wasn't for the help of my boyfriend I wouldn't have even been able to process the abuse I dealt with in my last relationship.
All I can offer is my POV and what I would do in your situation.
I personally value a good standing reletionship over a job.
Jobs can change.
A healthy future and madly in love reletionship is very hot to come by.
We're here to serve each-other. If I want the both of us to be happy, I need to do my part in offering her a relationship that she is happy to be in.
For those reasons, I would begin to consider other options for work. We're not at that stage yet, so I have time to work towards it. I got where I am now, I can do it again.
Ensuring she is happy at all times is what I want out of my reletionship. I never want to put her in a position where she is hurting.
I put the same amount of effort into my job, that I did into my reletionship. And of the two, I value my relationship effort more.
Well, if you intend to continue this relationship you guys definitely need to up your communication game. I’m honestly leaning towards it being a prank, it’s just too weird. You should just be straightforward with him and talk about it, but be wary of gaslighting. I find it very hot to believe you could just straight up miss the signs, and a proper relationship should realistically open with some level of discussion which is clearly not the case here.
It sounds like he is jealous and immature. With all the changes you made, you may have out grown the relationship and that’s ok. He does not have the right to put you down though.
“For any future relationships.” Thankfully not everyone is hyper insecure so hopefully he doesn’t have to learn any lesson from this besides the fact some people are just insecure and are stalkers.
Is your husband a person who is conscious of other peoples perceptions? Do you think he was saying out loud what he thinks his friends are thinking about your weight gain?
Sometimes it's not that people are saying what they truly believe, but voicing what they perceive to be other peoples opinions. Its a form of people pleasing. Is that in line with your husbands personality?
No he can't realize anything when his ego is hurt! He can't open his mind!
You shouldn't waste your time trying to teach him normal human behaviour .. he's not stupid but very manipulative! Also a liar! Selfish Abusive Controlling
He can't be wrong..
This is how he thinks:
That didn't happen. And if it did, it wasn't that bad. And if it was, that's not a big deal. And if it is, that's not my fault. And if it was, I didn't mean it. And if I did, you deserved it.
This post has reached one of our comment/karma limits. The text of the post has been preserved below.
i wanted to write because this has been on my mind.
my boyfriend has done every drug you could think of. he doesn’t do anything but smoke weed with me now. he has told me about them and his experiences with them. i have expressed to him that i’d like to try certain ones (cocaine mostly, everything else is kind of scary to me) since all i’ve done is weed and mushrooms. he tells me it’s not worth it because i have pretty bad anxiety and depression and he’s worried about how they’ll affect me afterwards since they can mess you up.
i was telling my friends about this in conversation and my one friend (25M) was trying to tell me he is controlling me. i tried to tell my friend that i believe he just cares about me and doesn’t want me to get hurt! i don’t think it’s unreasonable for him to ask me not to do naked drugs.
i honestly don’t even have a huge desire to try them now that i’m out of college because the effects do scare me a little and id probably only do them in a controlled setting with people i trust if i did. i personally don’t think doing any drugs is worth jeopardizing my relationship in any way.
That's the dumbest thing I've ever heard. Please don't date people. If it wasn't for the help of my boyfriend I wouldn't have even been able to process the abuse I dealt with in my last relationship.
All I can offer is my POV and what I would do in your situation.
I personally value a good standing reletionship over a job.
Jobs can change.
A healthy future and madly in love reletionship is very hot to come by.
We're here to serve each-other. If I want the both of us to be happy, I need to do my part in offering her a relationship that she is happy to be in.
For those reasons, I would begin to consider other options for work. We're not at that stage yet, so I have time to work towards it. I got where I am now, I can do it again.
Ensuring she is happy at all times is what I want out of my reletionship. I never want to put her in a position where she is hurting.
I put the same amount of effort into my job, that I did into my reletionship. And of the two, I value my relationship effort more.
If I was your gf I would have a really, really hot time getting over this. Just to give you a heads up it might not be fully fine.
Well, if you intend to continue this relationship you guys definitely need to up your communication game. I’m honestly leaning towards it being a prank, it’s just too weird. You should just be straightforward with him and talk about it, but be wary of gaslighting. I find it very hot to believe you could just straight up miss the signs, and a proper relationship should realistically open with some level of discussion which is clearly not the case here.
It sounds like he is jealous and immature. With all the changes you made, you may have out grown the relationship and that’s ok. He does not have the right to put you down though.
I agree but do you think she was on birth control and he wore a condom? Both together wont put you in this predicament.